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Fatale Media Newsletter December 2003
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Porn Tidbits
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Dear Friend,
Good news! Take Her Down! Lesbian Erotic Oil Wrestling Party was nominated by the Adult Video News in the Best Specialty category for a prestigious AVN Award!
More on this next month, but we'll be at CES in Las Vegas in January. Hope to see you there!
HBO's Real Sex has done it again with a knockout show #31. First up was our dear friend Tristan Taormino, who is no doubt the Queen of Anal Sex. If you don't know Tristan, check out PuckerUp.com, her great site about All Things Anal. Fans of Bend Over Boyfriend take note.
Does it seem like all the so-called mainstream media rants about the mainstreaming of porn neglect to mention women who like porn? At least HBO's "Real Sex" gets it.
We loved CBS's 60 Minutes, an institution if there ever was one. Their
November 23 show led off with a whole segment on the porn industry. It was great to see Steve Kroft cruising around CES and looking slightly embarrassed by all the half-naked porn stars.
But once again the women's perspective seemed to be missing.
And what about New York magazine's October 20th issue, Generation XXX? A sorry excuse to put Jenna Jameson on the cover, if you ask us.
"For the first time in human history," writes Naomi Wolf, "the [Internet porn] images' power and allure have supplanted that of real naked women. Today, real naked women are just bad porn."
We beg to disagree. Naomi Wolf just hasn't looked at enough of the real thing, real women who like porn and who are proud of their bodies. Women who love sex.
Are there a lot of women out there in mainstream porn who look like Barbie dolls? You betcha. That's part of why Fatale was founded--to show real naked women who love sex.
We say: Real naked women are just good porn!
Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com
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Many of you know g-spot expert Deborah Sundahl as Fanny Fatale. In "Ask Fanny," an exclusive column created just for this newsletter, she answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot.
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Dear Fanny,
Hi. I operate a website called Lippy Imp, which amongst other things offers sexual advice and answers for its readers. A man recently wrote me and asked:
"I have a question about female ejaculation. I saw some of the pictures and such on the Krystal Waters site and read the description. The thing is though that I have seen some videos that have women dripping (leaking) out a thick creamy white liquid that reminded me a lot of sperm. I was wondering if that too was FE. One of the times, I saw the girl was masturbating, so it couldn't be from a guy. So is that also FE or is it something else?"
Everything I have read about and seen firsthand in regards to female ejaculation suggests that this particular substance he is talking about is NOT ejaculate. But, then again, perhaps I am wrong. All descriptions I have read of female ejaculation have said it was clear and thin, not a "thick creamy white liquid." So, can you tell me what you think he is seeing?
Lippy Imp
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Dear Lippy,
What he is seeing is vaginal lubrication which is creamy, thick and white. You are right, female ejaculate is thin and watery-looking, with no odor (most of the time). Female ejaculation can dribble, but mostly it gushes. Many times it floods the bed, and towels are really a necessity.
You might also be interested to know that female ejaculate contains minerals and hormones. Serotonin is one hormone that has been confirmed, and zinc is one mineral. Because scientific studies on these constituents of female ejaculate are still scanty, there will undoubtedly be other hormones and minerals identified, and perhaps vitamins, as Tantra advocates claim exist in female ejaculate. Scientists speculate that the female prostate - the organ that creates ejaculate - is estrogen driven, much as the male prostate is androgen driven.
Perhaps this is more science than you care to know, but it's nice to know that all that ejaculate you may experience on your face, chest and thighs is probably not only good, but good for you!
Drink up!
Fanny
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Dear Fanny
I was wondering if you could help me resolve an ongoing argument. It concerns the color of female ejaculate.
Is it clear (like water) or is it sort of yellowish?
Does it vary from woman to woman?
I would really appreciate your help here. I am SO intrigued by female ejaculation; though it seems that there are a lot of pornography production companies taking advantage of its recent popularity and putting out videos of fake ejaculations. Unfortunately I haven't been able to experience it first hand, so all I have to go on here is what I've seen in pornography (which varies GREATLY). Regardless, I really enjoyed your site, thanks again!
TIM
Cambridge MA
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Dear Tim
On the whole, female ejaculate is colorless and odorless in all women, but it can vary with a women's menstrual cycle, and sometimes smell a little like urine and therefore appear lightly yellowish. The amount of ejaculate varies also with the cycle, and from women to women.
A woman in porn who truly ejaculates is Cyntheria. Many porn stars do not understand female ejaculate, and undoubtedly some are faking it.
My new video How to Female Ejaculate for Couples: Share Your G-spot is schedule to be released next month. There are three women in the video who ejaculate and you can see the real thing - as well as their g-spots close up and being stimulated. And check out my classic How to Female Ejaculate: Find Your G-Spot.
I wish you a copious ejaculating female very soon!
Fanny
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Send your questions to askfanny@fatalemedia.com
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