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Fatale Media Newsletter June 2005 |
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In This Issue:
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Summer Loving
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Dear Friend,
Long, lazy summer days are perfect for making time to play with your partner. The rest of the year can get so hectic it’s hard to imagine spending a few hours doing something romantic and erotic. At the beach or just catching a breeze outside—on a fire escape, stoop, deck, patio or backyard—we like to take the opportunity to try something different and sexy.
Try your hand at writing erotic poetry. You write the first line, then your lover writes the next line, et cetera. You might have a four-liner or a whole page filled with teasing lovers’ words, but in the end, read the poem aloud and you’ll find yourself getting frisky before you know it.
If the creative spirit doesn’t turn you on, try reading other people’s erotic poems to each other.
We like to make up sexy stories to tell each other. Sometimes they’re good enough to become blueprints for future videos!
On those really hot summer nights, sleeping outside can be the perfect stimulant for randy sex. If you’ve got mosquitoes or the threat of bears, coyotes or nosy neighbors nearby, find yourself a pup tent with mosquito netting and spread out the sleeping bags. Bring a pillow to stick under your hips so you don’t get sore...and to allow some rockin’ summer sex.
We used to sleep up on the roof of our apartment building in New York when the temperatures soared and there was no other relief from the heat. Sleeping outdoors brings out the exhibitionist in us, but then again, we’ve always liked public sex.
Happy Summer! Happy Pride!
Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com
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A reader who asked to remain anonymous wrote with a summer sex tip of her own. She recommends “painting each other nude outside early in the morning; even body painting on a hot summer night might be fun.”
We couldn’t agree more. If you’ve ever tried it, you know body painting is extremely sexy and a total turn-on, whether you’re the one getting painted or the painter.
To purchase body paint, check out a couple different sites. Nawty Things has a nice selection of body painting kits; shipping outside the U.S. takes a while, though. They also offer an edible “chocolate body painting kit” for a reasonable price.
You can buy your brushes separately in a local art store or take a look at the beautiful brush sets at Pearl Paint, one of the best art stores in New York City.
Once you’ve got your body paint and brushes, consider what you’re going to wear, if anything. G-strings always gives the promise of more to come later.
The feel of being painted is a merciless tease. When you’re getting painted, try to hold perfectly still and let the sensations flood you.
If you’re the painter, start with her nipples and a small paintbrush. Have your pots of paint on a tray with your brushes and sponges, if you’re using them. Use one brush per color. You can paint her face, her belly, her back, the backs of her thighs.
Don’t feel your painting has to look like tattoos; you can simply draw shapes—Valentines are perfect—and fill them in if you like.
For lovers who do have tattoos or piercings, you can trace her tattoos and paint your name on her.
Once you’ve been painted, trading places is fun. And our friend is right: Do this outside and the breezes will add to the delightful suspense of What Happens Next.
E-mail your tips and tricks to christi@fatalemedia.com. You could be published here!
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Many of you know g-spot expert Deborah Sundahl as Fanny Fatale. In “Ask Fanny,” an exclusive column created just for this newsletter, she answers your questions about female ejaculation and the G-spot.
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Dear Friends,
I wrote the following letter to the New York Times Science Editor regarding a piece they ran by Dinitia Smith, “A Critic Takes On the Logic of Female Orgasm” (May 17, 2005), about an evolutionary theory of the female orgasm. To read the article, just search the title at
the New York Times site. You may have to pay a small fee for the article.
Unfortunately, they didn’t run my letter. To date, the press in the United States is silent on female ejaculation, whereas in Europe and Canada I’ve received lots of intelligent press on this subject. If anyone has an idea why this might be the case, I’d love to hear from you. (I answer all letters sent to me, by the way.) I find the silence from the American press peculiar, especially since I get so many letters and hear from so many women (or their male partners) who are trying to ejaculate and awaken their G-spot! Therefore, I know there is a huge interest in the general public on female ejaculation and lots of activity and practice going on in the bedrooms of America.
I feel passionate about the medical profession and other interested professionals (such as these evolutionary researchers/scientists) taking into account the female prostate. All theories about the female orgasm and female sexuality are fatally flawed if they do not include this essential part of the female sexual anatomy! Since the female prostate was finally acknowledged as a real anatomical part by the medical profession in 1999, there is no excuse any longer for female ejaculation and the G-spot to be overlooked in their research and in the clinics. I give a Powerpoint presentation to as many healthcare organizations as I can in order to educate them on the female prostate, but not being a doctor, it’s been a hard door to push open. If any of you can help in this regard, please let me know. Enjoy the article and my response.
Let me know what you think. We’ll return to the Q&A next month.
Fanny (a.k.a. Deborah Sundahl)
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To: The Science Times Editor
Re: “A Critic Takes On the Logic of Female Orgasm” by Dinitia Smith (May 17, 2005)
Evolutionary theory to explain the female orgasm will continue to be a weak and grasping debate until researchers include in their analysis the G-spot, also known as the female prostate, and its prostatic fluid, or female ejaculate. Twenty years of research by respected scientists have shown that the G-spot’s main functions are exocrine (fluid-producing) and neuroendocrine (hormone-producing).
Female ejaculate’s chemical makeup consists primarily of prostatic fluid mixed with glucose. One interesting theory put forth by Dr. Milan Zaviacic is that this composition of female ejaculate may indeed have a reproductive, and therefore evolutionary, purpose because female ejaculate seeps into the vagina through the wall it shares with the urethral canal, thereby offering a nurturing environment for sperm.
Unfortunately, since its discovery in 1672 by Dutch anatomist Regnier de Graaf, the G-spot has been, until recently, relegated to footnotes in medical textbooks. It is no wonder that women may find it difficult to have orgasms, and that evolutionary theorists with an interest in female reproductive sexuality are having an almost comical time trying to figure out the purpose of women’s orgasm. One cannot study seriously women’s orgasms without considering the role of the G-spot.
Deborah Sundahl
Author of Female Ejaculation and the G-spot (Hunter House, 2003)
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Send your questions to askfanny@fatalemedia.com.
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Gosh, we’re surprised. Last month’s poll brought in 472 votes (as of this writing).
You like femme/femme porn, about 30% of you, or 146 votes. Interesting, because it’s different than girl/girl porn, and we think you do know the difference.
But you also really like butch/butch porn! More than 20% of you went for the butch thing, with 95 votes, followed closely by butch/femme porn at 83 votes. You can see all the poll results here.
Where are all the butch/femme couples out there? Are we a dying breed? Maybe we just don’t vote as often.
For all you butch/butch aficionados, check out Full Load: Scenes from ssspread.com when you get a chance. There’s lots of butch/butch action for you in this powerhouse by director Barbara DeGenevieve.
In this month’s new poll, we ask: What gives you the most explosive orgasms?
This poll is completely anonymous. It’s on Fatale’s home page.
Send an e-mail to christi@fatalemedia.com and you may see your words published here next month!
Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex!
Nan and Christi
www.fatalemedia.com
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