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Fatale Media Newsletter February 2005 |
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In This Issue:
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Celebrate!
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Dear Friend,
The weather sucks. The news sucks. Something always sucks.
So why celebrate? Because we can. To celebrate is to banish the doldrums of winter, to make a promise for the coming year—whether to your honey with a renewal of your love on Valentine’s Day or to yourself with the gift of oranges on the Chinese New Year.
A friend of a friend has been living with AIDS for 25 years. Tom is the new spokesman for a campaign called “HIV Stops with Me.”> When he was diagnosed in 1981, he says, “It was at that moment I recommitted myself to LIFE.”
So we decided to take a page from Tom and make February a time for recommitment. To life, to love, to good sex.
Mardi Gras in New Orleans is one of the most eclectic, fun celebrations of Fat Tuesday we know of. Its long history dates some say to Roman times, but the French were hosting masked balls in the city at least as far back as 1718.
Masks allow us to hide, it’s true, but masks are freeing too. If you’ve never worn a mask while having sex, you’ve missed out. We highly recommend you try it. And the more creative you are with making your mask, the better.
Greta wears a mask in Clips to show us some anal sex and self-loving that, were she unmasked, probably never would have happened in front of Nan’s camera.
Mardi Gras masks inspire us to think big, think totally outside of the daily routine. If you’re in New Orleans on February 8th, enjoy!
February 9th marks the start of the Chinese New Year, coincidentally the same day as Ash Wednesday. We hear it’s good luck to wear red on Chinese New Year. So wear red! Giving oranges are a traditional gift to celebrate. This is the Year of the Rooster, so go ahead and crow! But please, no jokes about cocks.
Valentine’s Day is for us the time to say I love you. You may know how we met, and we do celebrate our anniversary each April, but Valentine’s Day is different. It’s a whole day of remembering why we love each other. It starts off mushy-gushy, with roses and love notes and kisses in bed. By the end of the day, Valentine’s Day morphs into kinky and sexy and just plain old fun in bed.
Yeah, life sucks. But then you remember, it really doesn’t.
Yours in good sex and love,
Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com
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Looking for a sexy recipe for romance on Valentine’s Day? Check this out! It’s our personal recipe and works wonders to kick-start some good sex.
Tell your sweetie to go get sexy in the bedroom.
Melt semisweet chocolate, 3-4 squares, in a small pan. Use very low heat. Pour it in a bowl. Let it cool a bit, but not too much.
Take the strawberries out of the fridge. You want them cold but not too cold. If you weren’t able to find strawberries or other berries in the grocery store or market, you can use ice cream or just skip it.
Take out your cold beaters and bowl from the fridge. Whip cold heavy cream, a half-pint will do. Or take out the can of Redi-Whip.
Now let the fun begin!
Take the bowl of chocolate, a spoon, the strawberries and whipped cream to the bedroom...or wherever you’ve decided to play.
Follow the rules for playing with wax and drip the warm chocolate down her breasts, belly and onto her cunt.
Lick it up. Chocolate and cunt juices, yum!
Drizzle some more chocolate, roll a cold strawberry in the chocolate, then dip it in the whipped cream and feed it to her.
Use your fingers to draw the whipped cream through the chocolate dripping down her body. Lick some more.
If you’re both feeling adventurous, you can roll over and let her make you her chocolate delight. If you’re packing, let her play with your cock and top it off with some whipped cream.
You could even do like Pepper and Reeva in Hungry Hearts and use a blindfold while you feed her strawberries.
Use a condom or glove if you’re going to fuck her.
When you’ve used up all the chocolate, eaten all the strawberries and licked up the last of the whipped cream, hop in the shower together. As a final Valentine’s Day gift to her, offer to change the sheets.
Happy Valentine’s Day!
E-mail your tips and tricks to christi@fatalemedia.com. You could be published here!
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Many of you know g-spot expert Deborah Sundahl as Fanny Fatale. In “Ask Fanny,” an exclusive column created just for this newsletter, she answers your questions about female ejaculation and the G-spot.
Dear Fanny
Thank you so much for enlightening us with your knowledge on female ejaculation. My partner has been able to ejaculate effortlessly for the past number of years due to the beautiful insight from people such as yourself, Shannon Bell, Carol Queen and Susie Bright to name a few. She is currently 8 months pregnant and already lactating. It was just until recently she started clit pumping to make the clitoris as erect as possible for maximum pleasure, and then finishing with an Hitachi Magic Wand to spray everywhere. Since the past few weeks we have noticed an increase of ejaculate, and lactation occurring without even masturbation of the tits. How come there is more ejaculate when a woman is in her third trimester? Is it normal for a pregnant woman to masturbate herself 3-4 times daily this late in one's pregnancy? What damage if any will occur from clit pumping?
Thanks for your time, and many blessings.
Regards,
Pjr
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Dear Pjr,
Since the female prostate was only sanctioned as an anatomical term by the medical profession three years ago, very few studies have been done on female ejaculation. Therefore, studies during pregnancy are many years away. What we rely on are personal experiences, so in that regard I thank you for writing in to tell us your experiences as your partner brings her baby to term.
Therefore, it would be interesting to hear from your partner about why she is pleasuring herself so often, and how it feels to be ejaculating so profusely. I surmise her ejaculate is very clear and exquisite in its “energetic taste and smell” during this special phase in her life.
I would encourage you to drink it, because her ejaculate is likely very full of vitamins, minerals and hormones. Ejaculate is a healthful elixir even without the supposed added benefit of pregnancy.
I am not surprised to hear that ejaculate increases during pregnancy, as do all fluids in the female body. Pregnancy is the prime “fertility goddess” phase in a woman's lifecycle. Juicy, erotic, full, ripe... all pregnant women should be loved up and honored for the feminine archetype that they represent: fertility and abundance, creation, motherhood and love eternal. Flowing female ejaculate is its symbol. I encourage both of you to spend a little time reflecting on this higher meaning of pregnancy by digging a little deeper into its sacred mysteries.
The erotic sensation created by enlarging the clitoris with a sucking pump device can be appealing for some women. With such an exquisite ability to ejaculate so freely during pregnancy, I encourage her to back off a bit from the clitoral stimulation and focus visually and sensationally on the G-spot. The G-spot orgasm triggers 2/3 of the pelvic muscles, whereas the clitoral orgasm triggers only the first 1/3 of the pelvic muscles. Having stronger G-spot orgasms can help keep those important muscles fit for childbirth. In addition, it is much harder to ejaculate with a strictly clitoral orgasm, so if there is a lot of ejaculation now, there would be even more! Also, the G-spot's natural orgasmic sensation is one of deep love—a wonderful heart opening in which to bring a new child into the world.
I'm sure the baby is benefiting now from all the endorphins running around in your partner's body from all the good loving she is gifting herself with. You might want to consider going all the way; i.e., birth your child in the ejaculate waters. This practice was commonplace in ancient times, and some midwives today are reviving it. Since your partner is feeling so completely erotic—and it's great that she is free enough to let go into ejaculating freely—why not embrace also the erotic feeling that is the inherent nature of pregnancy. The baby's head will bear down upon that G-spot and ejaculate will flow along with birth blood and fluids, so have the orgasm to ease the pain, and birth your baby in the ejaculate waters! The child will surely be blessed.
Best wishes,
Fanny
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Send your questions to askfanny@fatalemedia.com.
P.S. My book, Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot will be published this month in France by Les Editions de l'Eveil located in Noisy-sur-Ecole.
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