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Fatale Media Newsletter January 2006 |
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Happy New Year!
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Dear Friend,
The year 2005 showed us as a global community how fragile this earth is, and how fragile human and political alliances can be. If you follow the news, as we do, you don’t need a recounting of the natural and unnatural disasters we’ve witnessed in the last year.
Here is a list we’ve started of our hopes and wishes for 2006:
• G-spot ejaculations for you who desire it
• Healthy, happy, wild sex for you who want it
• Love to continue for you who are in love
• Love to begin for you who wish for love in your lives
• Respect in all our lives
There are other things we hope for—the peaceful end to the war in Iraq, the identification of all the dead from Hurricane Katrina and the Asian tsunami—and certainly we have resolutions for the new year—putting the rest of Fatale videos on to DVD—but ultimately this list reflects our deepest hopes and wishes.
Thank you for making this past year a delight for us.
Wishing you a prosperous, fulfilling New Year,
Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com
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Many of you, according to December’s Sex Poll on spanking, “sometimes” practice spanking in sex.
We like spanking too. Depending on what kind of sex we’re having, spanking can act as foreplay or the icing on the cake.
Most of us remember being young and either being spanked, wanting to be spanked or knowing we deserved to be spanked. If you’re young enough, you may not have been spanked or even threatened with a spanking.
A reader wrote: “I have always loved/required a spanking EVERYTIME I have sex. I've always thought it was because when I was about 9 years old, my babysitter, a high school neighbor, would take me into a closet, pull down my pants, lay me over her lap, and spank and rub my ass with various ‘things’ she had found around the house. I loved it then and still to this day.”
For adults, spanking is a sexual act, whether you’ve been naughty or nice: A bare hand across the bottom sends waves of energy through to your genitals.
There’s something about being told to bend over that exposes you - to your lover, your sex partner, a room full of voyeurs at a sex party, a camera... Being exposed can be quite a sexy experience.
If you’ve experienced the sensation of being spanked bare-bottom and like it, try a hairbrush, a cane, a paddle, a belt.
To see pictures of spanked bottoms, read spanking stories and add your own comments if you want to, check out the Spanking Blog.
Send your comments to christi@fatalemedia.com.
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Many of you know g-spot expert Deborah Sundahl as Fanny Fatale. In “Ask Fanny,” an exclusive column created just for this newsletter, she answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot.
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Hi Fanny,
My wife and I were having sex and for the first time; she said she felt a sensation like she had to pee. This made her pull back. We were in a doggy-style position, only lying flatter. Would that be from g-spot stimulation? Also, how can she be more comfortable so we can experience female ejaculation?
Anonymous
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Dear Anonymous,
The sensation of having to pee is female ejaculation knocking on the door! Congratulations!
Your wife’s reaction of ‘pulling back’ is very common. Without knowledge of what female ejaculation is and how it works, too often women shut down their sexual response. You can image the problems this has caused in relationships and in a satisfying sex life. In my book, Female Ejaculation and the G-spot, I outlined everything you could want to know about female ejaculation, from how it works both physically and emotionally, to how to get this lovely feminine fountain flowing again!
Sexual positions that encourage female ejaculation are also discussed in my book, as well as an entire chapter devoted to men with tips to help their partners learn how to ejaculate. The “lying flat doggie style” you mentioned is one of the positions that women commonly experience their first sensation of having to female ejaculate.
The problem with the “laying flat” portion of that position is that it is difficult for the woman to move her pelvis, and therefore difficult to have free body movement essential to ejaculating freely and completely. I suggest standing up and entering from behind, with her body bent slightly forward and supported with her arms, like on the kitchen counter, or a low bedroom dresser. That way, when she feels that “urge to pee” she is able to use her PC (vaginal) muscles to push you out to ejaculate, and you can reenter her immediately afterward. Many women cannot ejaculate with anything in their vagina.
May this New Year Bless You with Free and Flowing Female Ejaculate!
Deborah
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Send your questions to askfanny@fatalemedia.com.
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We were delighted to see the Fall/Winter 2005 issue of Smut magazine with its rave review of Dominatrix Waitrix. They wrote:
“Somebody pinch me. I think I’ve died and gone to lesbian porn heaven. Kinky sci-fi working class dykes getting it on SM style in a café bathroom....The last fifteen minutes are a multidisciplinary porn triumph. Tranny bois and grrlz get it on with bio female lesbians and queer women all over the screen....”
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In last month’s poll, we asked: Is spanking part of your sex life?
“Sometimes” seems to be the operative word here, but some of you do it all the time!
To see the complete results of last month’s poll, click here.
The new poll is about piercing. Some girls we know are pierced all over, some only in one or two places, but does it affect your sex life? How?
Let us know: How does piercing affect your sex life?
Tell us your sexy piercing experiences!
This poll is completely anonymous. It’s on Fatale’s home page.
Send an e-mail to christi@fatalemedia.com and you may see your words published here!
Stay tuned, and we’ll give you the results next month.
Until then, we wish you a dazzling hot 2006!
Nan and Christi
www.fatalemedia.com
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