Posts Tagged ‘Shar Rednour’

7 Tips for How to Talk to Her

Tuesday, October 2nd, 2012

When it comes right down to talking, and talking sexy, to a potential new girlfriend, try these seven tips:

1. Think flirting. Don’t push the “I’m so sexy” persona unless you want to risk turning her off. Keep it light.

2. Ask about her, then listen. What does she like to do when she goes out? What’s the sexiest party she ever went to? When you get to know her better, ask her if she’s ever thought about role-playing, or if she likes to talk dirty in bed.

3. Eavesdrop, then pick up on her conversations. If you overhear her talking to her girlfriends or other friends (and this applies to her Facebook and Twitter postings too, for assessing her interests), pick up on what she’s saying, and how she’s saying it. Is she cooing away about a new pair of high heels? You know enough to ask which new style she likes best.

4. Timing makes a difference. You can eavesdrop, but don’t bust in on her conversations. Wait till there’s an opening, then talk to her.

5. Don’t ignore her friends. If you’re in a public or even semi-private place, include her friends in the conversation. Even if you’ve only got eyes for her, how you treat her friends reflects on your character.

6. Tongue-tied? Admit it. Say, “I’m usually kind of shy,” then ask to buy her a drink or coffee. As long as your timing is good, most people won’t say no.

7. Want to talk dirty? Tell her she’s sexy, and tell her exactly what you want to do with her once you’re in bed.

There are lots of ways to talk to women, and to engage them socially. Getting up the nerve is the hard part. Talking comes naturally once you relax. Flirting with her opens you up to talking dirty in bed and on the phone.

We owe a nod of thanks to Nick Savoy’s Love Systems for ideas that informed this article.

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Spotlight On: Shar Rednour

Saturday, July 14th, 2012

It’s been really, really hot throughout most of the U.S. over the last month or so. Sticky, yucky hot, not sexy hot. The weather is finally breaking, and for that we’re grateful.

For sexy hot, we’ve been gathering our favorite images and playing on Pinterest. Which got us thinking that we should create a sort of corollary for a blog posting we did a little while back, “Butches We Love.”

Why not take a look at some femmes we love?

So here goes, introducing “Spotlight On.”

Shar Rednour by Smeeta Mahanti

Spotlight On:

Shar Rednour, Femme We Love

Shar Rednour is probably best known for her role as the director and head diva of S.I.R. Video, taking the helm and starring in some of the hottest, sexiest porn we’ve seen, including Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels.

She is also the author of the fabulous The Femme’s Guide to the Universe, now available as an e-book.

Femmes Guide to the UniverseHere’s a snip:

“As a child, I perfected the art of making my mom and aunts tell me stories. I now turned my craft onto Susie, Honey Lee, Nan and Debi….

“I wanted to know if Susie [Bright] had always been femme and, if so, had she been ostracized like I had. Did Debi [Sundahl] really teach all the Mitchell Brothers strippers to fist in latex gloves?

Had Honey Lee [Cottrell], a motorcycle-riding, crew-cut sporting bulldagger, ever guessed she’d be pushing a baby carriage through Noe Valley? Nan [Kinney] insisted that all 70s lesbians were not in overalls on communes but some were snorting coke on the dance floors just like the gay boys.

Oh my lovely lessons!”

Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels remains one of Fatale’s bestsellers. Ditto Sugar High Glitter City. Both of these were named “Best Lesbian Porn” by LesbianLife.About.com.

Talk to Me Baby with Shar on TopOn the nonfiction side of things, Talk to Me Baby is a how-to about talking dirty, and it’s really the best there is for exploring seductive bedroom talk.

Healing Sex: The Complete Guide to Sexual Wholeness, which Shar directed and  stars Staci Haines, takes a deep, healing look at trauma, abuse and betrayal.

Perhaps she is best-known for her direction of Bend Over Boyfriend and Bend Over Boyfriend 2. These groundbreaking, critically acclaimed videos changed—and charged—the conversation between men and women.

Want to nominate someone for Spotlight On? Send us an e-mail or a message in Facebook!   Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com

P.S. Check out our favorite dyke videos.

P.P.S. You’re invited: Join Fatale Media on Pinterest. Want to pin on Fatale’s boards? Send us a message! We want to see your pins on our boards—“Lesbians We Love,” “LGBTQ Life,” “Femme Thrills,” “Hearts Aflutter,” “Vintage,” “Sexy Lesbians” and more. It’s fun!

New Poll: Your Porn Style?

Thursday, June 28th, 2012

Last month, we wondered about your favorite way to celebrate Gay Pride. And guess what? Sex was in the air! Check out the results.

This month, we’ve been playing around with Fatale Media on Pinterest, so naturally we’ve been thinking about style. And we wonder:

What’s your porn style?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page and is completely anonymous.

We’ll give you the results next month.

Until then, we wish you deliciously hot sex,

Nan and Christi

www.fatalemedia.com

Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels lesbian DVDP.S. If you haven’t seen Shar Rednour, the style mistress herself, we recommend the bestselling Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels.

In the Spring

Friday, March 30th, 2012

Christi and Nan's apricot tree March 2012Easily a month earlier than usual, trees and flowers are blooming.

“In the Spring a young man’s fancy lightly turns to thoughts of love.”

So wrote Alfred, Lord Tennyson, the great Victorian poet, in “Locksley Hall.”

Here are our favorite frolics to celebrate springtime, good for lovers, good for romance, good for hookups!

• Corny as it sounds, our favorite way to welcome spring is to take a walk. Hold hands. Sip an iced coffee along the way. Say hello to the neighbors…or not…

• Have lunch at the beach. Pretend it’s your first date.

• Talk to Me BabyNo beach in sight? Find a low-lit Italian place and talk dirty to each other. It’s even more fun during the day.

• Borrow a friend’s dungeon. Okay, everybody doesn’t have a friend with a dungeon. But making love in somebody else’s “crash pad” is terribly sexy. Bring your own toys.

• Single and randy? Pick up a girl. Hit your favorite bar or coffee shop, make contact and take her home. Indulge yourself in a one-night stand.

• Go dancing. All that heat and sweat and oozing energy feeds the libido like nothing else.

• Special Delivery Do yourself. To celebrate springtime, you have all the power in your hot little hand.

Don’t’ forget to post your sexy moments on Facebook. Fatale Media’s Facebook wall welcomes your posts too. Be coy. We love a tease!

Happy spring!

Yours in good love and sex,

Christi and Nan
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com

P.S. Don’t forget to check out Live Sex Show starring Jiz Lee and Nina Hartley—a springtime inspiration if there ever was one!

P.P.S. Check out all Fatale’s DVDs.

New Poll: Reason for Porn?

Thursday, March 29th, 2012

Shar Rednour with Glasses and Wine BottleMonogamy, threesomes, polyamory! Last month we asked, “What’s your ideal?” Check out the results.

This month, we’re curious:

Do you need a reason to watch porn?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page and is completely anonymous. We’ll give you the results next month.

Until next time, we wish you deliciously hot sex,

Nan and Christi
www.fatalemedia.com

P.S. For the third month in a row, the bestselling lesbian favorite is…drum roll, please…Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels. Clearly a butch/femme favorite!

 

Top 5 Favorite Butch Porn Movies

Friday, March 16th, 2012

Shine Louise HoustonSexy dyke movies that star butches—we can’t get enough of butch-femme scenes, and when you’re in the mood, the butch-butch scenes are delicious.

There is no question that Jackie Strano and Shar Rednour’s S.I.R. Video and the one and only Shine Louise Houston feature more butches in their movies than other directors.

It was hard to pick our favorites, but here goes—our Top 5 Favorite Butch Porn Movies:

The Crash Pad1. The Crash Pad. By now the standard-bearer and the place to begin if you’re new to the movies of award-winning Shine Louise Houston. Winner of “Hottest Dyke Sex Scene” from the Feminist Porn Awards, the DVD was also named “Best Lesbian Porn” by LesbianLife.About.com.

There are so many beautiful butches in here, and such exquisite butch-femme sex, we can watch this again and again and again…It’s a turn-on every time.

 

Hard Love Starring Jackie Strano2. Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels. Hard Love stars the gorgeous butch Jackie Strano and her lover and femme-in-arms Shar Rednour. Also named “Best Lesbian Porn” by LesbianLife.About.com, they said:

“This super sexy double DVD from S.I.R. videos features a multiracial cast of real queer girls, plenty of dildo action, real orgasms…”

 

 

Sexy Dallas Stars in Champion3. Champion. Another winner from Shine Louise Houston, Champion stars Syd Blakovich and takes us right into the Mixed Martial Arts ring, up against sexy, feisty, passionate Dallas. Fleshbot wrote:

‘Champion’ delivers, and it delivers in style. The film follows the story of fighting champion Jessie (played by newly discovered Crush Object Syd Blakovich), a dyke Casanova who’s conquered as many women out of the ring as she has in. But despite her history of success, things start to get rocky for Jessie. Will her hard dyke image ruin her career?”

 

Butch Fire from Full Load4. Full Load. Director Barbara DGenevieve trains her camera on butches with an unerring eye–she loves the butch bottoms, the butches who love their femmes, the butches who aren’t afraid to play.

Butch Fire” is a scene that dives right into the butch-butch rough-and-tumble, with no holds barred.

“This is a tasty video,” wrote Greta Christina in On Our Backs. “Butch and FTM fans, load up.”

 

The Crash Pad Series Volume 25. The Crash Pad Series Volume 2. It was really hard to pick among the Crash Pad Series DVDs…Shine Louise Houston peppers her casts with butches who are so handsome and self-possessed it’s hard to say which one is “best.” Jake and Wilder, way to go!

But after The Crash Pad, we love The Crash Pad Series Volume 2 for its real butch action. Butch-butch and butch-femme scenes make this a must-see!

 

Sexy February

Saturday, February 18th, 2012

Was February ever this romantic and sexy? It feels like a thaw, some sort of easing of tension. Everything is relaxed suddenly. How did that happen?

We had a lovely Valentine’s Day – here’s our Valentine’s Day blog posting, short and sweet about how we celebrated.

Then we watched two new DVDs just in from France. Oooh-la-la. Nice. They’ll be available soon, and we’ll let you know as soon as they are. (Can’t wait? Here’s a French lesbian DVD to make you wet wet wet!)

We’re glad it’s a long weekend here in the U.S., to celebrate Presidents’ Day. We get to sleep in, relax some more, enjoy each other. Watch some more sexy movies!

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi

nan@fatalemedia.com

christi@fatalemedia.com

P.S. The #1 Valentine’s Day DVD was Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels, the sexy lesbian DVD by the inimitable Shar Rednour, S.I.R. Video.

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Talk to Me Baby Makes Top 10 Sex Flicks

Saturday, February 11th, 2012

Thanks to the Center for Sexual Pleasure and Health its really useful The Top 10 Sex Education Films. Two Fatale offerings stand out among the Top 10:

Talk to Me Baby
Talk to Me Baby by Shar Rednour.

The Center says in its review: “Shar certainly has a way with words and she can take one of the most terrifying sexual behaviors people have and make it fun. Really, really fun! She’s got one of the best potty mouths in the business…”

 

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Healing SexHealing Sex: The Complete Guide to Sexual Wholeness by Shar Rednour and starring Staci Haines

From the Center’s review: “I don’t know of ANY other video that tackles this difficult subject. Staci Haines is a genius and my go-to woman for healthy sexual functioning after sexual assault….This video should be a staple in your video library.”

5 Surefire Valentine’s Day Gifts

Wednesday, February 1st, 2012

Valentine’s Day gifts tend to have a predictable rhythm that nonetheless is tried and true, oftentimes expected and not at all dreary in that you can be creative, there’s some variation on the themes.

Chocolates? Yes! Flowers? Definitely!

In our experience, it’s what goes with the chocolates and flowers that can take Valentine’s Day from being just another gift-giving holiday to something special and memorable.

With that in mind, we offer five surefire Valentine’s Day gift ideas:

Where the Heart Is Special Delivery1.  Where the Heart Is. The most romantic of all Fatale’s gift sets, this 3-DVD set also has the worthwhile amateur Afterschool Special mixed in. Carolyn Caizzi’s lovely real-life couples come alive in the other videos included in this set. Free Priority Mail shipping in the U.S.

2. Butch/Femme Rules. This 3-DVD set is a mash-up of romance (Special Delivery by Carolyn Caizzi), classic Nina Hartley with the remarkable Miss Sharon Mitchell (Suburban Dykes) and pure lust (Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels by Shar Rednour). Free Priority Mail shipping in the U.S.

Talk to Me Baby3. Talk to Me Baby. For an under $30 gift, Shar Rednour’s Talk to Me Baby is perfect for gay or straight, queer or trans, male or female. Everybody should know how to talk dirty, and this is the definitive tape. First class shipping in the U.S. costs only $2.95.

Nostalgia4. Nostalgia. We were talking with an old friend and longtime Fatale Media customer the other day. He told us that his favorite  Courtney Trouble video was Nostalgia. We went back and watched it again and were once again simply delighted! This is an excellent video, a queer porn parody starring all manner of lesbians. Under $30, with domestic shipping starting at $2.95.

5. Sugar High Glitter City. If your sweetie has a sweet tooth, this is definitely the Valentine’s Day gift that will satisfy her yearnings. Nominated for Best Soundtrack, Best All-Girl Feature and Best All-Girl Sex Scene by AVN, this is one of our favorites by far. Another excellent under $30 gift with a reasonable ($2.95) domestic shipping fee.

See all Fatale’s DVDs for even more ideas.

Yours in good love and sex,

Christi and Nan
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com

P.S. Valentine’s Day gift wrap is now available as an option at Fatale Media, as is birthday gift-wrap. Select your option—it’s free—at checkout.

P.P.S. Want it by Valentine’s Day? Order by Friday, February 3rd 2012 for shipping outside the U.S. Order no later than Friday, February 10th 2012 for shipping within the U.S. For overnight shipping, order no later than 4 P.M. PST Monday, February 13th 2012.

Jingle, Jingle – Great Sexy Gifts from Fatale Media

Saturday, December 3rd, 2011

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Great Sexy Gifts from Fatale Media

Recommended:

Live Sex Show DVD * * * Live Sex ShowNew! from Courtney Trouble

You can’t go wrong with the invincible Nina Hartley and oh-so-willing Jiz Lee.

 

 

 

 

Bend Over Boyfriend 2* * * * Bend Over Boyfriend Gift Set – Save 15%

The perfect gift for curious couples

 

 

 

 

Talk to Me Baby* * * Talk to Me Baby

Straight, gay, lesbian, you name it.

Shar Rednour reveals her deepest secrets in talking dirty for lovers.

 

 

 

Sugar High Glitter City* * * Sugar High Glitter City

Fantasy to the max! Sugar is outlawed, and these dykes will do anything to get it, even selling their own bodies!

 

 

 

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