Posts Tagged ‘Nina Hartley’

Celebrating Fisting

Friday, October 18th, 2013

Fisting has come out of the closet. October 21, 2013 marks the third anniversary of International Fisting Day, a celebration of a sexy sex act that bothers the hell out of a lot of people.

The imagery of the fist means revolution. It means boxing. It means violence. It means success, “hell, yeah, we did it.” It means a fist bump.

The hand curled into a fist. Tight or loose, it’s the way some people hold drumsticks or baseball bats. Grab a line on a sailboat. A dog’s leash. The tethers on a hot-air balloon. Whips.

Jiz Lee and Nina Hartley fisting in Live Sex Show

Fisting means loving your lady with your whole hand. The feeling is exquisite. Whether giving or getting, it’s an intimate gesture that surpasses nearly all others.

We’re not sure of the history of the hidden nature of fisting, but we do know that the law in the some areas, here in the U.S. and other places, isn’t real fond of images of women fisting. Fisting each other, specifically. Gay guys have their own culture of fisting, and their own porn around fisting. Lesbian fisting sex is different, although it may seem the gesture is similar.

Thank you to @JizLee and @CourtneyTrouble for standing up for fisting, for bringing fisting out of the closet and into the open with its own legitimate “International Day.” And Twitter hashtag – #FistingDay

Jiz Lee has a good post, “Fisting Day.”

On Monday, fisting images, art, blog posts and more will go live at this official Fisting Tumblr page. Grab your gloves and lube and go!

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com

@FataleMedia

P.S. Want to see some? Check out Nina and Jiz in Live Sex Show, or Courtney Trouble’s Hard Femme.

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Why Seduction Matters – Sometimes

Saturday, October 13th, 2012

We get asked a lot about lesbian seduction videos. Which videos show mature lesbians? Which videos show “first lesbian sex” seduction scenes? Which videos show butch/femme lesbian seduction?

Seduction, it turns out, is the key to what makes watching real lesbians make love. Unlike mainstream adult videos, real lesbian videos home in on the magic between two women.

Seduction matters—except sometimes.

Sometimes, who needs wine and roses? “Just fuck me, baby!”

In the hallway, in the car, in an alley, in the kitchen, in bed. It rarely matters where. Explosive sex can be the best medicine for what ails us.

When your sweetie has got her big dildo or fingers ready, or your sweetie is the one ready, willing and panting, go for it. Wine and roses, romantic snuggles, kissing can all come later.

For a good get-wet non-seduction, just-fuck-me scenes, check out Hard Love, one of our favorites. There are others with good spontaneous sex (and check this out for good butch/femme and butch/butch sex).

Here’s a sexy clip from One Night Stand:


ONE NIGHT STAND ( Trailer ) by emiliej

If for any reason you can’t see this trailer here, you can watch it right on the One Night Stand page on our site.

And when seduction is just what you had in mind, here are some seduction recommendations:

Nina and Jiz in Live Sex Show

  • Live Sex Show for best mature lesbian seduction with Nina Hartley and Jiz Lee

 

 

Hungry Hearts

  • Hungry Hearts for best classic lesbian butch/femme romance seduction with Pepper and Reeva.

 

 

 

Get seduced! Or not.

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com

P.S. Check out what LesbianLife.About.com calls “the best lesbian porn.”

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5 Surefire Valentine’s Day Gifts

Wednesday, February 1st, 2012

Valentine’s Day gifts tend to have a predictable rhythm that nonetheless is tried and true, oftentimes expected and not at all dreary in that you can be creative, there’s some variation on the themes.

Chocolates? Yes! Flowers? Definitely!

In our experience, it’s what goes with the chocolates and flowers that can take Valentine’s Day from being just another gift-giving holiday to something special and memorable.

With that in mind, we offer five surefire Valentine’s Day gift ideas:

Where the Heart Is Special Delivery1.  Where the Heart Is. The most romantic of all Fatale’s gift sets, this 3-DVD set also has the worthwhile amateur Afterschool Special mixed in. Carolyn Caizzi’s lovely real-life couples come alive in the other videos included in this set. Free Priority Mail shipping in the U.S.

2. Butch/Femme Rules. This 3-DVD set is a mash-up of romance (Special Delivery by Carolyn Caizzi), classic Nina Hartley with the remarkable Miss Sharon Mitchell (Suburban Dykes) and pure lust (Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels by Shar Rednour). Free Priority Mail shipping in the U.S.

Talk to Me Baby3. Talk to Me Baby. For an under $30 gift, Shar Rednour’s Talk to Me Baby is perfect for gay or straight, queer or trans, male or female. Everybody should know how to talk dirty, and this is the definitive tape. First class shipping in the U.S. costs only $2.95.

Nostalgia4. Nostalgia. We were talking with an old friend and longtime Fatale Media customer the other day. He told us that his favorite  Courtney Trouble video was Nostalgia. We went back and watched it again and were once again simply delighted! This is an excellent video, a queer porn parody starring all manner of lesbians. Under $30, with domestic shipping starting at $2.95.

5. Sugar High Glitter City. If your sweetie has a sweet tooth, this is definitely the Valentine’s Day gift that will satisfy her yearnings. Nominated for Best Soundtrack, Best All-Girl Feature and Best All-Girl Sex Scene by AVN, this is one of our favorites by far. Another excellent under $30 gift with a reasonable ($2.95) domestic shipping fee.

See all Fatale’s DVDs for even more ideas.

Yours in good love and sex,

Christi and Nan
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com

P.S. Valentine’s Day gift wrap is now available as an option at Fatale Media, as is birthday gift-wrap. Select your option—it’s free—at checkout.

P.P.S. Want it by Valentine’s Day? Order by Friday, February 3rd 2012 for shipping outside the U.S. Order no later than Friday, February 10th 2012 for shipping within the U.S. For overnight shipping, order no later than 4 P.M. PST Monday, February 13th 2012.

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Sex Tips: Sex for One for Two

Tuesday, September 15th, 2009

Masturbating with your partner is a tried-and-true “sex tip” said to get you in the mood for penetration. But we think solo sex can be fun when one partner merely watches. Something interesting happens. The sexual energy changes; the dynamics between the two of you change.

Masturbating while your lover watches can be scary at first. You’re completely vulnerable. Whether you’re in a hot tub with your pussy up against the streaming jets of water or whether you’re lying in bed with the vibrator turned on high, you have to force yourself into your body, purely into your own space, allowing yourself to really feel what you feel. To let your clit take over.

But once you let go, the trust seems to deepen…and okay, we’ll admit it, the desire for more–including penetration–often takes over.

What’s the best way to begin? Talking to your lover is always good advice, but having a vibrator at the ready also helps.

Try pulling it out and smiling suggestively. Let the little thing buzz. If you’ve got music or a video on, the buzzing won’t make it seem like you’ve taken up beekeeping.

If your partner wants to participate, just say, “I’ll be all yours in a moment, honey. I just want to try something different.”

Watching is a great turn-on. You can talk dirty, or caress your lover’s face or breasts without distracting her.

Nina Hartley and PepperThere’s some fabulous porn that can inspire a solo scene with your partner too. Suburban Dykes has a wonderful side-by-side masturbation scene with Nina Hartley and Pepper together on a phone sex line. Whoa, mama!

We’re also partial to the Mystery Masturbator in Take Her Down!–explicit and actually a good how-to for those of you who feel squeamish or unsure how to actually get things going down there.

If you’re into anal, we recommend Greta’s vignette in Clips with an anal self-loving scene that will open you up for sure!

Our friend Cory Silverberg has compiled some straightforward how-to advice at About.com. And don’t forget our good friend Betty Dodson, the queen of masturbation and author of the classic Sex For One.

One last word of advice, let yourself go. Don’t stop till you’ve come at least once!
Want more lovers’ masturbation tips? Check out “Masturbation for Lovers.”

Note: “Sex for One for Two” originally appeared in a slightly different form in the January 2004 Fatale Media newsletter.

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Sex Tips: Masturbation for Lovers

Thursday, April 16th, 2009

Speaking of masturbation, some couples forget that this can be one sexy turn-on, especially if one of you has her period or wants to try something different. So we’re bringing back a very popular sex tips column.
 
Masturbating side-by-side with your lover can be one of the sexiest entrees to lovemaking or a just a great way to relax and enjoy each other without the pressure to perform.

You can masturbate while your partner watches, or watch as your lover masturbates. Or you can both just lie there and enjoy listening as her breathing quickens.
Some couples like to get in the mood by watching a sexy DVD. Other couples talk dirty to each other.

Use your vibrator or your hand. You can also lie on your belly and ride a pillow, which works great especially if your vibrator is plugged in and humming.

Rules or no rules? Some couples like to have set guidelines. Do you have to ask permission? Do you like being touched while you’re masturbating? If you’re not sure, just roll with it.

If your lover touches you—perhaps stroking your breast or belly, perhaps putting her hand on top of yours while you masturbate—see how you feel. Is it a pleasant sensation? Distracting? Do you like it? Talk with your lover about the experience.

If you’re shy, the best way to try masturbating with your partner is to get under the covers, turn off the lights and close your eyes. Relax and let your fantasies take you where you will. Touch yourself and let yourself feel the sensations of skin and hair. Then gradually touch yourself between your legs and explore.

Masturbating together in the shower or bathtub can be a real turn-on, too. You’ll need some lube, no doubt, so make sure you’ve got some nearby.

If you’ve got a Jacuzzi, hot tub or sauna, position yourself over one of those jets of water and tease your lover by masturbating for her. She can choose to just watch or please herself over another water jet.

Most of all, have fun! If it’s not fun, then there’s no sense continuing. Instead, ask your lover for what you want. Talk to her. Find out what’s holding her back or why she doesn’t like to see you masturbate.

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For a sexy side-by-side masturbation scene with Nina Hartley and Pepper (Miss Sharon Mitchell stars as well), check out Suburban Dykes, still one of Fatale’s faves and a classic.

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