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June 1st, 2011New Poll: How do you like your pubic hair?
May 31st, 2011In last month’s poll, we asked: What is your sexual orientation?
Flexisexual? Mostly homo, but interesting results nonetheless. Check out the results.
This month we ask about how you like your pubic hair, or if you even care.
Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page.
Stay tuned. We’ll give you the results in a few weeks.
Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex!
Nan and Christi
www.fatalemedia.com
P.S. Treat yourself to a sexy lesbian DVD.
P.P.S. See all Fatale Media’s DVDs.
May Bestsellers
May 24th, 2011
1. Bend Over Boyfriend Gift Set – Father’s Day is coming! That must explain this little run on the BOB Gift Set. Plus, you save $10 when you order the set.
2. The Crash Pad Series Volume 2 – From the inimitable Shine Louise Houston. This one is especially beautifully filmed.
3. Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels by Shar Rednour and starring Shar and the sexy butch Jackie Strano.
Poll Reminder: Your Sexual Orientation?
May 23rd, 2011Quick reminder to vote in this month’s poll, in which we ask:
What is your sexual orientation?
Is nobody “Something else”? Hmm… Looking forward to some comments on that one.
Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page.
Stay tuned. We’ll give you the results next month.
Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex!
Nan and Christi
www.fatalemedia.com
P.S. Treat yourself with a sexy lesbian DVD.
P.P.S. See all Fatale Media’s DVDs.
Marriage and Its Defenders
May 5th, 2011We’d like to put our hat in the ring and say, “We too defend marriage.” For anybody. For everybody.
All this Defense of Marriage Act back-and-forth has reached, as the New York Times put it, “a tipping point.” Adam Lipak’s article last Sunday, “A Tipping Point for Gay Marriage,” pointed out that the legal community is often ahead of the curve when it comes to forward-thinking ideas and acceptance of those ideas in the general public.
Long before gay marriage becomes legal throughout the United States, legal decisions such as Lawrence v. Texas, decided by the U.S. Supreme Court in 2003, which in essence legalized gay sex (sodomy, to be precise).
Now we have international law firm King & Spalding, based in Atlanta, withdrawing from a case that would have put them in a position to defend the Defense of Marriage Act. Marriage should be between one man and one woman, that act says. The law firm doesn’t want to alienate its law-school recruits, among other things. Good. Let them withdraw.
If it takes the legal community to lead the way in legalizing gay marriage, so be it.
Till next time, yours in good love and sex,
Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com
P.S. Check out Shine Louise Houston’s new lesbian DVD The Crash Pad Series Volume 6. A keeper for sure!
P.P.S. Check out all Fatale’s DVDS.
Advice on a Sexual Issue: Drinking Pee
May 5th, 2011A reader wrote: “I need your advice on a sexual issue. While we are having sex (me and the girls), they enjoy and get excited about peeing on me, which in return I do love. I want to know if it’s okay to drink the pee because on daily basis I drink [several] bottles.”
We discussed this sexual practice, also called “golden showers” if she just peed on you, and decided that it’s probably okay if you drink your girlfriends’ pee. If it doesn’t taste right, then don’t, but assuming they’re healthy and not eating anything that would affect the taste, then you’re probably good to go.
But we also wondered, was it really pee. Perhaps the girls are female ejaculating? Could it be female ejaculate you’re really drinking? Or partially?
When we e-mailed this reader to ask him, he replied, “It’s pee and not ejaculation, because one girl spreads her legs in a way her cunt is a few inches away from my month facing me, and she starts peeing inside my month (the taste is pee) while another is giving me oral sex, then once she finishes peeing and I drink all her pee, the others do the same, and you can now have a clear picture how much pee I drink. To tell you the truth it tastes good.
“The amazing thing is that every time they pee in my month and I swallow all, I feel relaxed, and all the tension that I used to have is gone. Any explanation for that? I drink lots of my girls’ pee, because they get excited and it makes them happy. They do also ejaculate a lot while we are having sex.”
To bolster our understanding of the history and lore around drinking one’s own urine, we turned to the Wikipedia article on urine. Indeed, as we’d always heard, people have been drinking their urine and justifying it for thousands of years.
It follows suit that drinking your girlfriends’ pee would have similar beneficial properties.
If you’re not sure what’s what down there and want to further explore female ejaculation and the G-spot, check out Deborah Sundahl’s accessible and informative Female Ejaculation for Couples. Three couples, under the tutelage of female-ejaculation expert Deborah Sundahl, learn to female ejaculate.
New Poll: What’s Your Sexual Orientation?
April 30th, 2011In April’s poll, we asked: If you could have sex with one celebrity, who would it be?
Jennifer Lopez was fast out of the gate, then along came Lady Gaga and Pink (Christi’s personal fave). Midmonth Charlie Sheen took a turn, and with the royal wedding, Kate Middleton took off, and even Prince William drew a few votes! Check out the results.
This month is a trick question: What’s your sexual orientation?
You won’t find transsexual here, because that’s about male or female, not about who you want to fuck. We want to know that tidbit, and how you identify.
Taking issue with our definitions here? Have a comment about “flexisexual“? Click the comments box and tell us your opinion. We want to know!
Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page.
Stay tuned. We’ll give you the results in a few weeks.
Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex!
Nan and Christi
www.fatalemedia.com
P.S. Treat yourself with a sexy Fatale Gift Package.
P.P.S. See all Fatale Media’s DVDs.
Frolicking
April 18th, 2011Does springtime make you frisky as a colt, wanting to frolic and show off? Wanting to take off all your clothes just because it’s beautiful outside and besides, why not?
Winter blues are gone. There are a thousand sexy moves you want to make. You feel sexier than ever.
Hah! We’re happy just watching the birds trying to make a nest outside Christi’s office window, and admiring the spring flowers all in bloom.
Lots of gift orders are coming in to Fatale, and that makes us think of birthdays and anniversaries and all kinds of fun things.
Nan’s birthday is May 2nd, and already we’re plotting and planning a lovers’ getaway weekend. Hot springs, massages, a completely romantic two days.
Yours in good love and sex,
Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com
P.S. Check out the latest Crash Pad Series Volume 6. Highly recommended!
Ask Fanny: Energetic Sexuality
April 18th, 2011
G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot. You may send your questions to askfanny@fatalemedia.com; please put FE Q&A in the subject line.
Dear Fanny,
As lesbians, my girlfriend and I have been working at awakening the sensations of our G-spots for some time now. We are noticing how much easier it is to feel erotic pleasure just from gently touching the G-spot and focusing on it. Tantra talks about a merging of sexual energy, and you talk about how this is best transmitted through the G-spot. So what is the best way to do this?
Lenora in Massachusetts
Dear Lenora,
What a great letter! This is my suggestion to begin, as there are many more ways that you will discover as you go along.
Try putting your mouths together and your fingertips touching on the body of each other’s G-spot (where the ridges are). Then, using the breath and being still, let the erotic energy rise up, first in your genitals. Then, using the breath, breathe all that collected erotic energy in your genitals “up” to your mouths.
This is a basic Tantra technique. As you practice this technique of “inner listening” to the body’s feelings of arousal, you will find your erotic energy growing faster and easier each time.
Also, putting your mouths together in a loving kiss actually makes an energetic circle from your fingers and G-spots to your mouths, which enables this process of energetic orgasm. A great book that explains this concept and offers techniques is Healing Love through the Tao: Cultivating Female Sexual Energy by Mantak Chia (Destiny Books, 2005).
Your ejaculation will change as well; it will simply flow out of your body! So, no more stunning and showy feminist ejaculation that you push out to “spray the wall”—the feminist mantra we used when we first made the female-ejaculation video How to Female Ejaculate.
Tantric Journey to Female Orgasm: Awaken Your G-spot shows how ejaculate flows out via energetic stimulation of the G-spot.
As they say, “You’ve come a long way, baby.” Indeed! Now the new territory to explore is energetic sexuality. With its ties to spirit, this is like the feminist Goddess culture reborn! Enjoy the new adventure.
Deborah
P.S. See Deborah Sundahl live! Spring tour dates include the East Coast of the U.S. this week; Vancouver, B.C. and Seattle in late April, early May; New Mexico on May 10-11; England, France and Germany beginning mid-May. See Deborah’s full schedule at the Isis Media Web site.
Bushy
May 24th, 2011Our dear friend Tony wrote to us with some more insights into the oftentimes mysterious world of straight kinky relationships.
We’ve known Tony for years, and he has shared his perspectives on sex and politics and the geopolitical shifts that allow our worlds to intersect. In another place and time, our worlds would probably have never met.
But that’s the fun thing about what we do! We meet people from all over the world and from all walks of life. This business offers a wonderful place for intersections.
Our friend’s latest letter was edited slightly to avoid the e-mail censors; this is his original letter to us:
“I would like to see posting the issue of pubic hair. As I told you before, my four girls have bushy pubic hair, which gives me a great sexual appetite for a good fuck.
“I did some surveying here [in Massachusetts], asking many women if they shave or keep growing their cunt hair and why? The women who shave believe that it will be easy for them to masturbate and to be licked from both sexes.
“The other women keep growing their pubic hair, because while masturbating they love to feel the hair and touch it, especially this excites them while they are taking a shower, see the shampoo on their pubic hair, as they believe this makes them feel that their privates are special, different from others’. When it comes to sex, they get more orgasm feeling, from the tongue on their pubic hair and the dick.
“As for me I adore the pubic hair to be bushy, because once my girls finish peeing on my face and in my mouth, I suck dry their pubic hair, while doing that my girls and me, we get extreme sexual excitement.”
Yours in good love and sex,
Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com
P.P.S. To read the letter that preceded this one, see “Advice on a Sexual Issue (Drinking Pee).”
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