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G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot. You may send your questions to askfanny@fatalemedia.com; please put FE Q&A in the subject line.

Dear Fanny,
I don’t think my girlfriend can female ejaculate anymore. Is this possible, when women get older they don’t always have the same physical reactions?

Frank

Dear Frank,
Age and being able to female ejaculate do not seem to be related. In fact, women can usually gush the same amount of fluid as they age, even into old age. We are finding that our ideas about sex as we age do not have to do with diminished interest, but with health. Stay fit, gals!

There are other reasons why women stop ejaculating, too. Primarily, there are two reasons: 1) a woman’s partner has indicated, usually right after a woman ejaculates, that he or she doesn’t like female ejaculation; or 2) a woman is having diminished feelings for her partner, or there is some temporary problem with intimacy in the relationship; or 3) she feels pressured by her partner to either ejaculate or to learn how.

All these affect a woman’s ability to ejaculate because female ejaculation and affection are often intertwined, and because so little is really known about how female ejaculation works with emotions, most women do not put two and two together.

HAPPY HOLIDAYS!

Deborah Sundahl

P.S. To learn the basics of female ejaculation and the G-spot, take a look at How to Female Ejaculate: Find Your G-Spot by Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale.