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Ask Fanny: Tantra and Female Ejaculation

Friday, July 15th, 2011

G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot.

Dear Fanny,
What is tantra? Is it all New Age sex stuff? What does it have to do with female ejaculation?

Caroline in New York

Dear Caroline in New York,
Tantra is about sexual energy. Tantra is also a religion and a science that goes back about 3,000 years or more.

Tantric Journey to Female OrgasmPeople then believed that sex was sacred. Their temples were carved with statues from floor to ceiling, depicting individuals, couples and groups in every imaginable sexual position and behavior. They developed hours-long rituals to set every nerve on erotic fire. And because they were meditation and yoga masters, they could hold these positions a very long time.

Margot Anand, M.A from Sorbonne University in France, is responsible for bringing this knowledge to the west in early 1980s. Her book, The Art of Sexual Ecstasy, is the sourcebook of Tantra and I highly recommend it. (These links are both to her site, margotanand.com.)

Where Tantra enters the picture with female ejaculation – and which I talk about in my lectures and classes – is using the Tantra technique to reawaken the dulled sensations of the G-spot, the female prostate. Men know the prostate is ultrasensitive; why can’t women feel theirs? Numbed out due to the way we ram it in, in Western culture.

Tantra teaches us to use the breath and energy to develop exquisite sensations of erotic pleasure, pleasure that the G-spot is capable of and is the source of.

Good luck!

Fanny

P.S. Check out Deborah Sundahl’s DVD Tantric Journey to Female Orgasm.

 

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Talking Dirty

Wednesday, June 15th, 2011

Another letter from a friend surprised us when it arrived last week. What about “talking dirty?” he wanted to know.

Surprise! Talk to Me Baby is a DVD from S.I.R. Video that is the crème de la crème for talking dirty. Director and dirty-talk expert Shar Rednour, the “Diva of Dirty Talk,” offers:

—Tips on how to use dirty talk to seduce a lover
—Pillow talk as a prelude to passion
—Sex fantasies played out in scorching detail.

Smut Magazine wrote: “Shar Rednour is, as always, the perfect hostess. She’s her usual vampy, campy and out of control self. What I love about this video is that anyone can get something out of it.”

What gives even more spice to dirty talking is a little added fetish. Our friend writes: “I also like the fetish ( I adore sucking women’s toes) before talking to a woman. I look to her toes, and hands…”

For all the talk of Representative Anthony Weiner—and we do not believe he should resign—and his “dirty tweets,” actual dirty talk is sexier than any tweet or posting.

The tenor of the voice, the smooth soft lure of a honeyed sexy voice… The greatest writers, even those who write great tweets, can’t match the thrill that sparks up and down the spine when the seductive dirty talk starts.

What do you think?

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com

P.S. Check out Talk to Me Baby. Just so you know, the couples who illustrate the dirty talk here about both straight and lesbian.

P.P.S. Fatale Media’s Gay Pride Special is on through June, 2011. Ten percent off everything plus free shipping in the U.S.

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Bushy Letters

Wednesday, June 15th, 2011

Not long after we wrote about “bushy” last month, we got several e-mails from readers. We thought we’d share them here. (Letters are edited for style and spelling only.)

“I’m a 45 y.o. male from Tulsa OK. I hate bush!!! It just gets in the way of everything !!! If I go out with a lady that has a bush then I’ll do her but won’t go down on her. I love the look, feel, taste & everything about the shaved pussy, it just doesn’t get any better than bald!!!”

“Love the comments today. I love women with hairy bush. Do you have any videos for sale with women with hair?”

“I’ve been on your e-mail list and have purchased films this past Christmas. Do you have more films with bushy women than the one in this month’s e-mail blast? Yes, I’m a sort of kinky straight male, if I have to label myself. Actually a lot more, lol, but more on that later ….thank you.”

Okay, so here goes on the “hairy bush suggestions.” If we’re leaving any off, let us know and we’ll post more next time:
Bushy pubic hair on display in Afterschool SpecialAfterschool Special (a double DVD with Turn Me Up Over and On) – some nice bush in evidence, especially on Ms. Hussy, the star dyke!

In case you’re wondering, that’s Ms. Hussy with the size EEE boobies lying down.

Full Load: Scenes from ssspread.com. The last scene is a particularly nice one.

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These two gems by Carolyn Caizzi both have some “bushy ladies,” as Carolyn says, as well as some smooth:
Special Delivery

Coming Home

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Bushy

Tuesday, May 24th, 2011

Our dear friend Tony wrote to us with some more insights into the oftentimes mysterious world of straight kinky relationships.

We’ve known Tony for years, and he has shared his perspectives on sex and politics and the geopolitical shifts that allow our worlds to intersect. In another place and time, our worlds would probably have never met.

But that’s the fun thing about what we do! We meet people from all over the world and from all walks of life. This business offers a wonderful place for intersections.

Our friend’s latest letter was edited slightly to avoid the e-mail censors; this is his original letter to us:

“I would like to see posting the issue of pubic hair. As I told you before, my four girls have bushy pubic hair, which gives me a great sexual appetite for a good fuck.

“I did some surveying here [in Massachusetts], asking many women if they shave or keep growing their cunt hair and why? The women who shave believe that it will be easy for them to masturbate and to be licked from both sexes.

“The other women keep growing their pubic hair, because while masturbating they love to feel the hair and touch it, especially this excites them while they are taking a shower, see the shampoo on their pubic hair, as they believe this makes them feel that their privates are special, different from others’. When it comes to sex, they get more orgasm feeling, from the tongue on their pubic hair and the dick.

“As for me I adore the pubic hair to be bushy, because once my girls finish peeing on my face and in my mouth, I suck dry their pubic hair, while doing that my girls and me, we get extreme sexual excitement.”

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com

Bushy pubic hair on display in Afterschool SpecialP.S. To see bushy public areas on display, check out Full Load: Scenes from ssspread.com. The last scene, down in the laundry, is a particularly nice one.

P.P.S. To read the letter that preceded this one, see “Advice on a Sexual Issue (Drinking Pee).”

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Advice on a Sexual Issue: Drinking Pee

Thursday, May 5th, 2011

A reader wrote: “I need your advice on a sexual issue. While we are having sex (me and the girls), they enjoy and get excited about peeing on me, which in return I do love. I want to know if it’s okay to drink the pee because on daily basis I drink [several] bottles.”

We discussed this sexual practice, also called “golden showers” if she just peed on you, and decided that it’s probably okay if you drink your girlfriends’ pee. If it doesn’t taste right, then don’t, but assuming they’re healthy and not eating anything that would affect the taste, then you’re probably good to go.

But we also wondered, was it really pee. Perhaps the girls are female ejaculating? Could it be female ejaculate you’re really drinking? Or partially?

When we e-mailed this reader to ask him, he replied, “It’s pee and not ejaculation, because one girl spreads her legs in a way her cunt is a few inches away from my month facing me, and she starts peeing inside my month (the taste is pee) while another is giving me oral sex, then once she finishes peeing and I drink all her pee, the others do the same, and you can now have a clear picture how much pee I drink. To tell you the truth it tastes good.

“The amazing thing is that every time they pee in my month and I swallow all, I feel relaxed, and all the tension that I used to have is gone. Any explanation for that? I drink lots of my girls’ pee, because they get excited and it makes them happy. They do also ejaculate a lot while we are having sex.”

To bolster our understanding of the history and lore around drinking one’s own urine, we turned to the Wikipedia article on urine. Indeed, as we’d always heard, people have been drinking their urine and justifying it for thousands of years.

It follows suit that drinking your girlfriends’ pee would have similar beneficial properties.

If you’re not sure what’s what down there and want to further explore female ejaculation and the G-spot, check out Deborah Sundahl’s accessible and informative Female Ejaculation for Couples. Three couples, under the tutelage of female-ejaculation expert Deborah Sundahl, learn to female ejaculate.

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Shine Louise’s New Crash Pad Series DVD

Wednesday, March 2nd, 2011

We can’t be more enthusiastic about Shine Louise Houston’s new Crash Pad Series Volume 6 DVD. Wow!

Every time we think Shine can’t top her previous Crash Pad movies, she comes up with another juicy offering.

In The Crash Pad Series Volume 6 five new scenes take the denizens of the Crash Pad even further into exploring the limits of lesbian and queer sex.

Stars in this DVD—

–The gorgeous Dylan Ryan and Jiz Lee
–Casey and Tina in a spanking scene
—Cyd Loverboy and James Darling for steamy butch/FTM action
–Carson and Ray in an interracial sexfest
–And Sidney and Summer Vega in the last scene, our favorite. 

The latest DVD from Shine Louise Houston is in stock and ships within 24 hours.

Order now!

See all Fatale’s DVDs.

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New Poll Reminder: Exhibitionist? Voyeur?

Tuesday, March 1st, 2011

Last month, we asked: How do you celebrate Valentine’s Day?

Check out the results here: http://www.fatalemedia.com/polls/past_polls.html

This month we ask:
Are you an exhibitionist or a voyeur?

Tell us now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page.

Stay tuned. We’ll give you the results next month.

Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex!

Nan and Christi
www.fatalemedia.com

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Brrr

Monday, January 24th, 2011

Staying warm this winter is a real chore! Our friends in New York City are freezing their buns off. Brrr.

So we say, stay home and watch porn instead! That’ll warm you up.

 The lesbian vids are on the loose–our top sellers this last week. In advance of Valentine’s Day, so it seems.

Do you know you can have your DVD gift-wrapped with a Valentine’s Day theme? Yes, you may. Just click the dropdown box in the Fatale checkout. Easy.

And gift cards are available too, so you can tell your sweetie you love her. Or suggest a passionate night out.  Or at home, cozy and watching the snow fall outside.

Sexy gift sets are on offer too and often ship free. For when you absolutely have to have more than  just one.

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Shipping Special Ends Tomorrow

Friday, January 14th, 2011

Thank you for making Fatale’s holiday season a good one. Lots of people took advantage of Fatale’s Shipping Special—free shipping on all orders sent within the U.S. and half-price shipping on all orders sent outside the U.S. It’s our gift to you.

Tomorrow night, January 15th, 2011, the shipping special ends. So if there’s a sexy DVD you’ve been eyeing, or if you want to get your sweetie a gift, do it now while you’re thinking about it. You’ll get a good deal.

Top Sellers This Holiday Season

 Bend Over Boyfriend
1. Fatale’s top-selling DVD this season was the instructional Bend Over Boyfriend. Scroll down to see a letter about BOB from Emilie in Montreal. Thanks, Emilie!

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2. Next up was the S.I.R. Video knockout starring Shar Rednour and Jackie Strano: Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels.

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Coming Home by Carolyn Caizzi3. This last week there’s been a flurry of activity around Carolyn Caizzi’s Coming Home. Big, curvy dykes start off this vid, and three more racy vignettes follow.

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Take advantage of the special rates—no shipping fee within the U.S., which is a good deal, and half-price shipping for orders sent outside the U.S. Satisfaction is guaranteed.

No minimum purchase required, either. Promise.

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com

P.S. Check out Fatale’s best lesbian videos.

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Bestselling Gifts 2010

Wednesday, December 15th, 2010

Now’s the time to think about holiday gift-giving, whether you live inside or outside the U.S.

The bestselling gift package from Fatale this year is The Bend Over Boyfriend Gift Set. For the curious among us, this is a real winner.

The number-one lesbian DVD selling this holiday season is Coming Home by Carolyn Caizzi, followed by Afterschool Special and Turn Me Up Over and On.

FHM wrote about Afterschool Special, “This video was so excellent, I couldn’t believe it was filmed by amateurs.”

The gift package “Where the Heart Is” includes both these videos and Carolyn Caizzi’s Special Delivery, another lesbian amateur goodie!

And remember, when you order from Fatale, you get personalized service and attention to detail. Want your DVD or gift set gift-wrapped? It’s easy—simply check the box during checkout.

Your 100% satisfaction is guaranteed.

Gift certificates are now available from Fatale too. 

You’ve got lots of just-right, money-saving gift sets, too. See all Fatale’s gift packages.

See the 2010 Holiday Shipping Schedule.

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