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By Shar Rednour

As we head into Pride weekends over the summer, you are no doubt going to be seeing a lot of queer folk in fetish wear. Here in San Francisco we see it all from grown men in fuzzy Pan suits (that’s the pagan Pan) to the typical chaps with some hot asses (hopefully) in full sight. Don’t forget that this isn’t just a fashion statement but related to sexual fetishes.

Do you dream of a motorcycle babe throwing you on her throbbing ride and throttling you away? Do you actually masturbate to the image? If you watch my movies or read my writing you will know that I am pretty obvious in my fetishes: shoes, feet, hands…more hands. I particularly love to indulge others in their fetishes as well doing eyeglass photo shoots, public sex and more. All with photographer artist Phyllis Christopher, www.thesexystuff.com.

At SIR Productions, we worked together as well. She’s in our outtakes in Talk to Me Baby; she’s in the beginning of How to F*ck in High Heels as well. But my fetishes are not fakes on film. Our fetishy, fantasy-filled orgasms inspired our work to the degree of obsession.

So how about you? Do you really have a fetish? Let’s find out with my handy quiz.

When you jill-off do you think of:

a) Two or even three bodies rubbing together in some sex act?
b) Being tied up with panty hose shoved in your mouth as someone tickles your knees?
c) Being forced to eat a cupcake while Babes-o-rama plow you from behind?
d) Forcing your gal to eat a cupcake while you plow her from behind?
e) I can’t answer right now, Shar. There is a stiletto heel against my temple and I am about to cum. Talk to ya later.

I get most turned on by:

a) The thought of genuine lovemaking and a good orgasm.
b) Titties bouncing.
c) Sniffing dyke hands.
d) Staring at dyke hands…then screaming wildly when they touch my high heels.
e) Sticking my toes in pudding. Butterscotch pudding.

I’m embarrassed to admit that:

a) It’s not only guys buying those naked aerobic videos.
b) There’s nothing wrong with women in headbands (did I mention ’80s naked aerobic videos?).
c) I wish my lover wore a dirty jock strap and talked about locker rooms.

PARTY GAMES

Last but not least no Summer of Pride is complete without party games. Try this one.

Guess My Fetish! This is more fun than it sounds. It’s kind of a group Newlyweds game. Each person has to write her own fetish on a card and keep it hidden so no one can see. Then take turns when as a group you debate what each person’s fetish is. Finally, pick as a group (this makes it fun because you have to argue with each other like Family Feud and make a group decision for your bet on her fetish). Then do the reveal to see who’s right. Pick what your loser–either the trusting lesbian or the misguided group –has to do: drinks, kiss, shows their tits, you know your peeps. Pick something good.

Pin the Feather on the Fetish

Hang up pictures on the wall of items to represent typical fetishes such as a woman’s legs, breasts, high heels, work boots, eyeglasses, leather and lace, boxer shorts, hot hands, armpits, etc.

Blindfold your lucky contestant. Turn her in circles and give a feather with sticky tape on the end. Wherever she sticks it is the fetish she has to try. Either just thinking about it while masturbating or doing it with a lover. Of course you can have a “tryout” closet ready at the party and take down the results onsite if you wish!

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So, what’s your fetish?

To see the gorgeous femme Shar Rednour in action, check out Hard Love and How to F*ck in High Heels and Sugar High Glitter City. (more…)