G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot. You may send your questions to askfanny@fatalemedia.com; please put FE Q&A in the subject line.
Dear Fanny,
I don’t think my girlfriend can female ejaculate anymore. Is this possible, when women get older they don’t always have the same physical reactions?
Frank
Dear Frank,
Age and being able to female ejaculate do not seem to be related. In fact, women can usually gush the same amount of fluid as they age, even into old age. We are finding that our ideas about sex as we age do not have to do with diminished interest, but with health. Stay fit, gals!
There are other reasons why women stop ejaculating, too. Primarily, there are two reasons: 1) a woman’s partner has indicated, usually right after a woman ejaculates, that he or she doesn’t like female ejaculation; or 2) a woman is having diminished feelings for her partner, or there is some temporary problem with intimacy in the relationship; or 3) she feels pressured by her partner to either ejaculate or to learn how.
All these affect a woman’s ability to ejaculate because female ejaculation and affection are often intertwined, and because so little is really known about how female ejaculation works with emotions, most women do not put two and two together.
HAPPY HOLIDAYS!
Deborah Sundahl
P.S. To learn the basics of female ejaculation and the G-spot, take a look at How to Female Ejaculate: Find Your G-Spot by Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale.
Sex on the Beach: Postcard from Florida
Thursday, September 16th, 2010During a visit to Florida recently, Christi watched one evening as couples gathered on the beach near sundown, some of them under cabanas but mostly just sprawled on towels, lying face-up to watch the evening sky darken.
A long line of airplanes, lit like planets in themselves, were aligned across the eastern sky, each of them headed toward Miami. Behind the beach runs the Hollywood (Florida) boardwalk where couples strolled hand in hand and restaurants filled with hungry diners.
It was after Labor Day and before “winter,” as the locals call it here—that time when northerners descend on the state and locals “can’t get a place to park.”
It was steamy and sexy all at once. Those couples lying on the beach, couples holding hands on the boardwalk, all lost in private reverie.
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