Poll reminder! Go vote!
This month, we ask:
Does sex get better with age?
Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page and 100% anonymous.
Till next time, we wish you fabulous sex.
Nan and Christi
www.fatalemedia.com
P.S. Looking for some special savings? You save 10%-15% when you order the combo sets – which make great gifts! Free birthday (and regular) gift wrap too!
Last month it seemed excess was everywhere—and it wasn’t just the weather! So we wanted to know if you were multiorgasmic.
Guess we all know what we’re doing! See the results!
This month, we want to know what you think about sex:
Is it true sex gets better with age?
Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page and 100% anonymous.
Till next time, we wish you fabulous sex.
Nan and Christi
www.fatalemedia.com
P.S. Want some cool vids to steam you up? See what LesbianLife.About.com calls “the best lesbian porn.”
Is more your style?
Vote now and tell us:
Are you multi-orgasmic?
The poll is on Fatale’s home page and 100% anonymous.
Till next time, we wish you fabulous sex.
Nan and Christi
FataleMedia.com
@FataleMedia
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We’re enjoying the last of summer, although it’s not as steamy as we thought it was going to be this year. But there are excesses everywhere!
So we wanted to know:
Are you multiorgasmic?
Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page and 100% anonymous.
Till next time, we wish you fabulous sex.
Nan and Christi
www.fatalemedia.com
P.S. Don’t forget! Insatiable Summer Savings special sale is on now at Fatale! You save 45% on all items plus get fast, free shipping when you buy 3 DVDs. No minimums, either. Sale is on through August 31, 2014. Shop now!
Last month, we asked what your favorite way is to have sex when it’s too damn hot. Summer when it sizzles! See the results!
Everybody wants more, right? More love, more sex… So we wondered:
Are you multiorgasmic?
Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page and 100% anonymous.
Till next time, we wish you fabulous sex.
Nan and Christi
www.fatalemedia.com
P.S. Did you know? Bend Over Boyfriend is the #1 bestseller at Fatale Media! And if you like lesbian, see what LesbianLife.About.com calls “the best lesbian porn.”
P.P.S. One of the best ways to learn to achieve multiple orgasms is to learn about female ejaculation and the G-spot. G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl’s book is just published in its revised second edition, with new techniques for mastering sexual satisfaction.
If you’re a fan of Afterschool Special, you for sure know the supremely talented Ms. Hussy…who performs under the band name Karen and the Sorrows.
After a year of hard work, Karen has released The Names of Things, available at karenandthesorrows.com, on iTunes or, as she says, “pretty much any other internet music place.”
Fuck Yeah, Queer Music says, “They write loss and heartbreak, and goddamn are they good at it.”
There’s even a vinyl version! Oh, be still our record-player-lovin’ hearts!
Here’s the video, posted on YouTube: http://youtu.be/xeWjAbGzT-E
“Just a Little Heartbreak” – very sweet song!
And if you missed Afterschool Special it’s not too late. One of our favorite videos.
Yours in good love and sex,
Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com
P.S. See all Fatale’s lesbian titles, what LesbianLife.About.com calls “the best lesbian porn.”
G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the G-spot.
Dear Deborah,
I’d like to learn more about female ejaculation, but I’m not sure how to start. Should I try to find my own G-spot first, before talking to my partner?
Baffled in Baton Rouge
Dear Baffled,
The best way to begin to discover your own G-spot is to treat this important excursion as a relaxing hour of self-care.
As we all know by now, that means: uninterrupted quiet time where you have treated yourself to a long bath, candles, music and other things you truly like and want to partake in that you know relax you.
Then, use lubricant (olive oil works just fine if you don’t have anything else; if Cleopatra used it, you can, too!).
Before proceeding any further, do 12 rounds (in and out) of slow, deep breathing, filling your lungs completely and exhaling completely.
Next, place your finger at the entrance to your vagina and keep it there with very gentle insistence, waiting until your vagina practically scoops your finger inside. Continue to relax and breathe deeply. Don’t push yourself in and don’t push yourself deep. Stay just inside the opening an inch or two, that’s all.
Turn the pad of your finger toward the roof of your vagina. Breathe and relax. Then, millimeter by millimeter, explore all the crevices and folds, caves and ridges of your G-spot. Yes, that’s it. Right there!
But if you don’t approach it in this relaxed and loving manner, you can breeze right by it. Not because it is small, but because we are too busy, in this culture, looking for the Big Prize. It is indeed a Big Prize, but it is wrapped in delicate paper at first, and sometimes we can think we don’t feel anything, or that it hurts, or that it should send us off the planet in instant exquisite pleasure.
Remember, breathe and relax and notice what you feel.
Once you have explored your G-spot once or twice, invite your partner to explore with you. In this way, you will have a new sexual frontier to explore together.
If you’d like more information, the revised, second edition of my book, Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot, is now out and available for sale at Fatale Media. I hope you like it.
Best wishes,
Deborah Sundahl
P.S. Here are Deborah’s upcoming workshops and webinars about female ejaculation and the G-spot:
• “Talk for Men: Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot” is a 2-hour evening webinar that runs the first Tuesday of each month. The next “Talk for Men” is Tuesday, August 5, 2014 at 9:00 p.m. EDT. Click here for more information.
• Deborah’s next live “Weekend Workshop for Women” will be held in Muenster, Germany, October 10 – 12 , 2014.
“The workshop was a precious experience of deep intimacy with myself. Beside meeting beautiful and curious women (and having a lot of fun), the group’s experience allowed me to let go, in a trusting atmosphere, supported by the other women’s experiences and energy.” – Maeva, Grenoble, France
Click here to learn more and read other testimonials.
• Want to learn what happens in an in-person female ejaculation workshop? Read “Workshop Etiquette” by Deborah Sundahl.
For this month’s poll, we ask:
What’s your favorite way to have sex when it’s too damn hot?
Ice cubes your fancy? Sexy outdoor showers? Something more interesting?
Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page and 100% anonymous.
Till next time, we wish you steamy, summertime sex.
Nan and Christi
P.S. Looking for some summertime savings? You save 10%-15% when you order the combo sets – which make great gifts! And for outdoor hot tub fun, check out the classic Hungry Hearts!
G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot.
Dear Deborah,
I’m curious to attend a workshop on female ejaculation, but what is it like? I’m wondering if it’s uncomfortable to be in a group and try to find your G-spot. Do I have to take off my clothes?
Signed, Not Really Sure
Dear Not Really Sure,
There are four reasons why some people have reservations about attending a workshop:
These are pretty scary reasons to not go to a workshop. But this is what really takes place at a workshop:
Rather than a workshop being a place to get hit on without consent, it is just the opposite. Privacy is paramount and respect for individual boundaries Rule Number One. You wear a sarong and all women have their private space within the group space; this boundary is first and foremost respected.
Rule Number Two is that women do only what they feel comfortable doing.
For example, you wear a sarong, the room is kept comfortably warm and you can bring your own toys or not. The goal is to experience and learn in a congenial, safe atmosphere.
With the rules in place, most women feel extremely comfortable after a few hours and get swept up in the excitement of discovery with women who, just like them, are nervous and excited.
Deborah Sundahl
Send your questions to askfanny@fatalemedia.com.
Be sure to check out Deborah’s DVD, Female Ejaculation: The Workshop, to see a workshop in action.
Originally published as “Ask Fanny: What Happens at a Workshop?” this encore column addresses what to expect from a female ejaculation and G-spot workshop. Check out all of Deborah’s forthcoming webinars and workshops.
In Memoriam: Barbara DeGenevieve
Thursday, August 14th, 2014Thus was born Full Load: Scenes from ssspread.com, which Barbara directed and for which Nan served as executive producer. Greta Christina wrote, “This is a tasty video…butch and FTM fans, load up.”
As relevant today as it was then, Full Load showed explicit lesbian and trans sex. Nan says, “Barbara was one of the first people to really explore lesbian, queer, FTM and trans sex in a porn context.”
She served as chair of the photography department at the School of the Art Institute of Chicago. As a visual artist, she received two National Endowment for the Arts Visual Artist Fellowships, among other awards and honors.
Out of her Chicago home base, Barbara also served as a mentor to the talented Carolyn Caizzi (Turn Me Up Over and On, Coming Home, Special Delivery) and Stacy Goldate (as Edith Edit, directing Dominatrix Waitrix), each of whom has her own porn style and eye for style.
We had the pleasure of meeting Barbara in person in Santa Fe a few years ago. What fun!
It was with great sadness we learned of her death earlier this week from cervical cancer.
We credit Barbara with bringing a “Chicago porn” style to lesbian and feminist porn. Her influence can be seen in her sense of humor, which is present in nearly everything she touched and created.
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