2013 « Fatale Media Blog

Fisting has come out of the closet. October 21, 2013 marks the third anniversary of International Fisting Day, a celebration of a sexy sex act that bothers the hell out of a lot of people.

The imagery of the fist means revolution. It means boxing. It means violence. It means success, “hell, yeah, we did it.” It means a fist bump.

The hand curled into a fist. Tight or loose, it’s the way some people hold drumsticks or baseball bats. Grab a line on a sailboat. A dog’s leash. The tethers on a hot-air balloon. Whips.

Fisting means loving your lady with your whole hand. The feeling is exquisite. Whether giving or getting, it’s an intimate gesture that surpasses nearly all others.

We’re not sure of the history of the hidden nature of fisting, but we do know that the law in the some areas, here in the U.S. and other places, isn’t real fond of images of women fisting. Fisting each other, specifically. Gay guys have their own culture of fisting, and their own porn around fisting. Lesbian fisting sex is different, although it may seem the gesture is similar.

Thank you to @JizLee and @CourtneyTrouble for standing up for fisting, for bringing fisting out of the closet and into the open with its own legitimate “International Day.” And Twitter hashtag – #FistingDay

Jiz Lee has a good post, “Fisting Day.”

On Monday, fisting images, art, blog posts and more will go live at this official Fisting Tumblr page. Grab your gloves and lube and go!

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com

@FataleMedia

P.S. Want to see some? Check out Nina and Jiz in Live Sex Show, or Courtney Trouble’s Hard Femme.

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Time to Play Dress Up!

Friday, October 18th, 2013

Halloween is nearly upon us, and just because you’re not in grade school anymore, it doesn’t mean you can’t dress up and celebrate this most excellent pagan holiday.

We started a Pinterest board called Sexy Halloween. Follow the board and we’ll invite you to post! It’s as easy as that.

Inspiration for costumes, inspirations for dressing up, inspiration for role-playing. Fun!

Join us on Fatale’s Sexy Halloween Pinterest board!

P.S. One of our favorite sexy dress-up role-play scenes is from Queer Manor, with a tongue-in-cheek Madison Young and her lady-in-waiting. Hmm sexy.

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Poll Reminder: Out in the Open?

Wednesday, October 16th, 2013

Is having sex in public an acquired taste? What about watching? We’re not sure, but we did wonder if you like to do it out in the open, including masturbating (!!). So we asked in this month’s poll:

Do you like to have sex in public?

Vote now. The poll is on Fatale’s home page and 100% anonymous.

Till next time, we wish you fabulous sex.

Nan and Christi

www.fatalemedia.com

P.S. Sexy public solos and couples here (and watch the trailer!): Live Sex Show by Courtney Trouble. Check out all the sexy titles at Fatale Media.

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Spontaneous O

Friday, October 4th, 2013

The verdict is in. Science has confirmed the ability to achieve spontaneous orgasms via fantasy alone. This is big. We’ve known about Tantra for a long time, and Tantra practitioners always seem to have the secret smile that says, “I have the best orgasms ever.”

Women do it more and better than men, according to “I’ll Have What She’s Thinking.” Surprised?

Where does porn fit into this whole schema? It wasn’t mentioned. During the scans of the orgasm participants’ brains, volunteers were told only to fantasize.

But what is porn if not fantasy come to life on the screen? We’re willing to bet purveyors of porn are high on the list of those gifted with spontaneous Os!

Are you a spontaneous O? What do you like best about it?

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com

P.S. For some spontaneous Os of your own, check out all Fatale Media’s videos!

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Fatale Bestsellers

Friday, October 4th, 2013

This last month has been a lively one, with emphasis on female ejaculation and the G-spot. There was lots of positive response to “G-Spot Lessons.”

Here are the top 5 Fatale bestsellers from the last month:

1. Bend Over Boyfriend – the bestselling guide to male anal sex, including lessons and demonstrations headed by Carol Queen and Robert Lawrence.

2. How to Female Ejaculate – Deborah Sundahl’s classic bestseller on how to find the G-spot and female ejaculate. The all-women workshop is perfect for those who want to broaden and enhance their sexuality.

3. Bend Over Boyfriend II – more rockin’ less talkin’, directed by the inimitable Shar Rednour and featuring three couples new to male anal pleasure.

4. Female Ejaculation for Couples – Deborah Sundahl picks up with a workshop for three couples who want to learn to experience the joys of female ejaculation. Men are taught to explore the G-spot manually, and the best sexual positions to create G-spot ecstasy.

5. Afterschool Special and Turn Me Up Over and On (double DVD) – A schoolgirl gangbang on a campus setting (“more dildos than you can shake a stick at,” wrote FHM magazine in an outstanding review) is both funny and sexy. Turn Me Up Over and On, directed by the inordinately talented Carolyn Caizzi, is a sweet romantic lesbian tryst.

This has got to be the first month in memory when the educational titles outsold the lesbian titles!

A quick note: If you’re interested in male anal pleasure, the Bend Over Boyfriend Gift Set saves you 15%.

Free gift-wrapping (birthday gift-wrap or regular gift-wrap) available on all orders, plus free gift cards!

See what LesbianLife.About.com calls “the best lesbian porn.”

See all Fatale’s DVDs.

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New Poll: Public Sex?

Tuesday, October 1st, 2013

Last month, we asked if you liked to get tied up for sex.. What struck us was the divide between tying up and getting tied up.” Check out the results!

This month, we take the pulse on public sex, asking: Do you like to have sex in public?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page and 100% anonymous.

Till next time, we wish you fabulous sex.

Nan and Christi

www.fatalemedia.com

P.S. Check out Live Sex Show from Courtney Trouble, who filmed an evening of live public sex in San Francisco, plus a hot scene with Nina Hartley and Jiz Lee.

P.P.S. See what LesbianLife.About.com calls “the best lesbian porn.”

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The Clit Gets an Ad Campaign

Friday, September 13th, 2013

We didn’t realize the clit needed its own ad campaign. But according to Sophia Wallace, that’s exactly what the clit—unappreciated, undervalued in the world—needs. And she’s out to make sure the world knows about it in a new “Cliteracy” campaign.

Why cliteracy? Why now?

This is about much more than just women’s sexuality, Wallace maintains.

“Cliteracy is about not having one’s body controlled or legislated. Not having access to the pleasure that is your birthright is a deeply political act,” she told the Huffington Post.

A Tumblr campaign has gone viral, and Wallace plans to take her Cliteracy street ad campaign beyond New York City, where she posts the posters touting Cliteracy.

At base is Wallace’s “100 Natural Laws of Cliteracy,” and the art installations are pointblank: “The clitoris is not a button. It is an iceberg,” reads one declaration.

And if the idea of a “Clit Rodeo” tickles your fancy, you won’t be disappointed.

Wallace says that even in (straight) porn the clit is considered “optional” and “kind of freaky,” we say the clit is rarely ignored or dismissed in the real thing, real dyke sex, between lesbians.

What do you think? Does the clit need its own PR?

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com

P.S. Check out all Fatale’s sexy lesbian and adult-education videos.

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G-Spot Lessons

Thursday, September 12th, 2013

Does G-spot sex come naturally to you? To a lot of people, it doesn’t, and for that G-spot diva Deborah Sundahl offers a wealth of resources.

Want to learn where the G-spot is, what it is and how to make your woman have the deepest, sexiest orgasms you ever imagined? Then Female Ejaculation: The Workshop is for you. An all-woman cast provides a safe space in which to talk, to touch, to explore.

Want to explore G-spot orgasms in a straight couples context? Then we recommend Female Ejaculation for Couples. Three straight couples talk openly and learn to have G-spot sex under the tutelage of expert Deborah Sundahl.

Deborah also offers in-person workshops. These intimate, loving sessions are just right if you want or need guidance from an experienced, gentle teacher.

Deborah guides you to learn where the G-spot is, what makes it so vital to fulfilling sex, and how to massage the G-spot to achieve maximum pleasure. Workshops are either for women only or for couples.

Her female ejaculation and the G-spot webinars are perfect if you want to participate but aren’t in the neighborhood where Deborah is teaching.

Now through November, she’s in the U.K., Europe and Ireland giving workshops and lectures. Countries include England, Ireland, Germany, Switzerland, Copenhagen, Poland, Belgium and France. She returns to the U.S. at the end of the year.

Check out Deborah’s complete events calendar, including webinars.

See all Deborah’s DVDs and female ejaculation book on Fatale’s site.

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New Poll: Fisting?

Happy Fisting Day 2013

Celebrating Fisting

Time to Play Dress Up!

Poll Reminder: Out in the Open?

Spontaneous O

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The Clit Gets an Ad Campaign

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