1. Bend Over Boyfriend Gift Set – Father’s Day is coming! That must explain this little run on the BOB Gift Set. Plus, you save $10 when you order the set.
2. The Crash Pad Series Volume 2 – From the inimitable Shine Louise Houston. This one is especially beautifully filmed.
3. Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels by Shar Rednour and starring Shar and the sexy butch Jackie Strano.
Quick reminder to vote in this month’s poll, in which we ask:
What is your sexual orientation?
Is nobody “Something else”? Hmm… Looking forward to some comments on that one.
Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page.
Stay tuned. We’ll give you the results next month.
Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex!
Nan and Christi
www.fatalemedia.com
P.S. Treat yourself with a sexy lesbian DVD.
P.P.S. See all Fatale Media’s DVDs.
A reader wrote: “I need your advice on a sexual issue. While we are having sex (me and the girls), they enjoy and get excited about peeing on me, which in return I do love. I want to know if it’s okay to drink the pee because on daily basis I drink [several] bottles.”
We discussed this sexual practice, also called “golden showers” if she just peed on you, and decided that it’s probably okay if you drink your girlfriends’ pee. If it doesn’t taste right, then don’t, but assuming they’re healthy and not eating anything that would affect the taste, then you’re probably good to go.
But we also wondered, was it really pee. Perhaps the girls are female ejaculating? Could it be female ejaculate you’re really drinking? Or partially?
When we e-mailed this reader to ask him, he replied, “It’s pee and not ejaculation, because one girl spreads her legs in a way her cunt is a few inches away from my month facing me, and she starts peeing inside my month (the taste is pee) while another is giving me oral sex, then once she finishes peeing and I drink all her pee, the others do the same, and you can now have a clear picture how much pee I drink. To tell you the truth it tastes good.
“The amazing thing is that every time they pee in my month and I swallow all, I feel relaxed, and all the tension that I used to have is gone. Any explanation for that? I drink lots of my girls’ pee, because they get excited and it makes them happy. They do also ejaculate a lot while we are having sex.”
To bolster our understanding of the history and lore around drinking one’s own urine, we turned to the Wikipedia article on urine. Indeed, as we’d always heard, people have been drinking their urine and justifying it for thousands of years.
It follows suit that drinking your girlfriends’ pee would have similar beneficial properties.
If you’re not sure what’s what down there and want to further explore female ejaculation and the G-spot, check out Deborah Sundahl’s accessible and informative Female Ejaculation for Couples. Three couples, under the tutelage of female-ejaculation expert Deborah Sundahl, learn to female ejaculate.
In April’s poll, we asked: If you could have sex with one celebrity, who would it be?
Jennifer Lopez was fast out of the gate, then along came Lady Gaga and Pink (Christi’s personal fave). Midmonth Charlie Sheen took a turn, and with the royal wedding, Kate Middleton took off, and even Prince William drew a few votes! Check out the results.
This month is a trick question: What’s your sexual orientation?
You won’t find transsexual here, because that’s about male or female, not about who you want to fuck. We want to know that tidbit, and how you identify.
Taking issue with our definitions here? Have a comment about “flexisexual“? Click the comments box and tell us your opinion. We want to know!
Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page.
Stay tuned. We’ll give you the results in a few weeks.
Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex!
Nan and Christi
www.fatalemedia.com
P.S. Treat yourself with a sexy Fatale Gift Package.
P.P.S. See all Fatale Media’s DVDs.
Does springtime make you frisky as a colt, wanting to frolic and show off? Wanting to take off all your clothes just because it’s beautiful outside and besides, why not?
Winter blues are gone. There are a thousand sexy moves you want to make. You feel sexier than ever.
Hah! We’re happy just watching the birds trying to make a nest outside Christi’s office window, and admiring the spring flowers all in bloom.
Lots of gift orders are coming in to Fatale, and that makes us think of birthdays and anniversaries and all kinds of fun things.
Nan’s birthday is May 2nd, and already we’re plotting and planning a lovers’ getaway weekend. Hot springs, massages, a completely romantic two days.
Yours in good love and sex,
Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com
P.S. Check out the latest Crash Pad Series Volume 6. Highly recommended!
G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot. You may send your questions to askfanny@fatalemedia.com; please put FE Q&A in the subject line.
Dear Fanny,
As lesbians, my girlfriend and I have been working at awakening the sensations of our G-spots for some time now. We are noticing how much easier it is to feel erotic pleasure just from gently touching the G-spot and focusing on it. Tantra talks about a merging of sexual energy, and you talk about how this is best transmitted through the G-spot. So what is the best way to do this?
Lenora in Massachusetts
Dear Lenora,
What a great letter! This is my suggestion to begin, as there are many more ways that you will discover as you go along.
Try putting your mouths together and your fingertips touching on the body of each other’s G-spot (where the ridges are). Then, using the breath and being still, let the erotic energy rise up, first in your genitals. Then, using the breath, breathe all that collected erotic energy in your genitals “up” to your mouths.
This is a basic Tantra technique. As you practice this technique of “inner listening” to the body’s feelings of arousal, you will find your erotic energy growing faster and easier each time.
Also, putting your mouths together in a loving kiss actually makes an energetic circle from your fingers and G-spots to your mouths, which enables this process of energetic orgasm. A great book that explains this concept and offers techniques is Healing Love through the Tao: Cultivating Female Sexual Energy by Mantak Chia (Destiny Books, 2005).
Your ejaculation will change as well; it will simply flow out of your body! So, no more stunning and showy feminist ejaculation that you push out to “spray the wall”—the feminist mantra we used when we first made the female-ejaculation video How to Female Ejaculate.
Tantric Journey to Female Orgasm: Awaken Your G-spot shows how ejaculate flows out via energetic stimulation of the G-spot.
As they say, “You’ve come a long way, baby.” Indeed! Now the new territory to explore is energetic sexuality. With its ties to spirit, this is like the feminist Goddess culture reborn! Enjoy the new adventure.
Deborah
P.S. See Deborah Sundahl live! Spring tour dates include the East Coast of the U.S. this week; Vancouver, B.C. and Seattle in late April, early May; New Mexico on May 10-11; England, France and Germany beginning mid-May. See Deborah’s full schedule at the Isis Media Web site.
Quick reminder to vote in this month’s poll, in which we ask:
If you could have sex with one celebrity, who would it be?
Interesting results…and one comment so far, a good one: Salma Hayek.
Seriously sexy.
Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page.
Stay tuned. We’ll give you the results next month.
Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex!
Nan and Christi
P.S. Treat yourself with a sexy lesbian DVD.
P.P.S. See all Fatale Media’s DVDs.
Spring is here. At last. The tulips are everywhere, as are the daffodils. Trees that may or may not be crabapple trees are blooming with white flowers. The cherry tree next door has got an aura of pink about it.
We cleaned out the closets this weekend, with the sole purpose of donating Christi’s much-loved but now too small cocktail dresses to a high-school prom dress “auction.” It works like this: people donate old prom dresses, cocktail dresses, bridesmaid dresses and the like—old tuxes are welcome too. The local group that organizes this “promwear recycling” then holds an auction. The money raised goes to charity.
More news: We’re still looking for help with Wikipedia, if you or someone you know has experience in this realm. This is not a volunteer request, by the way. Please contact Christi (christi@fatalemedia.com) if you have a suggestion or referral.
Enjoy the springtime!
Till next time, yours in good love and sex,
Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com
P.S. Check out The Crash Pad Series Volume 6.
P.P.S. Check out Fatale’s best lesbian videos.
Here are the top 5 best-sellers for March 2011:
1. Bend Over Boyfriend – Fatale’s best-selling title of all time, this instructional DVD starring Carol Queen remains the best and most thorough how-to on anal sex for men.
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2. Bend Over Boyfriend 2 – “More rockin’ less talkin’”— the tagline from director Shar Rednour on BOB2, which also stars Carol Queen.
The perfect follow-up once you’ve got the basics from Bend Over Boyfriend.
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3. Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels – when you want high-drama sexy as they come butch/femme porn, this is one you won’t want to miss. Starring Shar Rednour and Jackie Strano.
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4. Crash Pad Series Volume 6 – The latest from Shine Louise Houston, The Crash Pad mastermind and diva herself.
Lesbian, queer, butch and FTM, interracial sex…Shine makes sure no matter what your taste, there’s something in there just for you.
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5. Female Ejaculation for Couples – Three couples, under the tutelage of female-ejaculation expert Deborah Sundahl, learn to female ejaculate.
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Marriage and Its Defenders
Thursday, May 5th, 2011We’d like to put our hat in the ring and say, “We too defend marriage.” For anybody. For everybody.
All this Defense of Marriage Act back-and-forth has reached, as the New York Times put it, “a tipping point.” Adam Lipak’s article last Sunday, “A Tipping Point for Gay Marriage,” pointed out that the legal community is often ahead of the curve when it comes to forward-thinking ideas and acceptance of those ideas in the general public.
Now we have international law firm King & Spalding, based in Atlanta, withdrawing from a case that would have put them in a position to defend the Defense of Marriage Act. Marriage should be between one man and one woman, that act says. The law firm doesn’t want to alienate its law-school recruits, among other things. Good. Let them withdraw.
If it takes the legal community to lead the way in legalizing gay marriage, so be it.
Till next time, yours in good love and sex,
Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com
P.S. Check out Shine Louise Houston’s new lesbian DVD The Crash Pad Series Volume 6. A keeper for sure!
P.P.S. Check out all Fatale’s DVDS.
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