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Archive for 2010
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Tuesday, June 1st, 2010Ask Fanny: Easier Female Ejaculation
Tuesday, June 1st, 2010
G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot. You may send your questions to askfanny@fatalemedia.com; please put FE Q&A in the subject line.
Dear Fanny,
I used to be able to female ejaculate, but lately it seems it’s not as easy as it used to be. Is there anything I can do to make it easier again?
Anonymous in New York
Dear Anonymous in New York,
The ability to female ejaculate is often characterized by sensitivity to one’s connection to your partner and also to yourself. If it is not as easy to ejaculate as it once was, this situation often reflects a change in your relationship from closeness to more difficulties or distance.
If you’re not in a relationship, this can reflect a change in how you relate or perceive yourself; perhaps you’re not feeling as attractive as you used to feel about yourself.
Sometimes for women who are very profuse when they ejaculate, they begin to have problems or doubts about ejaculating so much liquid. They then curtail their desire to ejaculate or don’t do it as frequently. If they are not conscious of these doubts, it can seem to them as if it is becoming more difficult to ejaculate, when in fact they are holding themselves back due to not wanting to create such a big pool of water every time they are sexual.
Lastly, if a woman has been performance-oriented and trying hard to ejaculate, she may find her ability waning somewhat, due to pushing too hard (both literally and figuratively). As I have said many times, the surest way to not ejaculate is to pressure yourself. Relax and enjoy the process!
In the same vein, a change may be coming over your sexual desires. Perhaps you have been having lots of sport sex, and now you want to go more inward and explore what your sexuality would be like from the perspective of expressing love and intimacy with yourself or a partner.
Bottom line: don’t worry about this change in your ability to ejaculate. Use it as the opportunity it is: to take a look at your erotic life for changes, or changes you are beginning to want to make.
Deborah
Want to find out more about female ejaculation?
Check out Deborah Sundahl’s popular sex-education DVD Female Ejaculation for Couples and her equally popular book, Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot.
Public Masturbation * Fantasy
Thursday, May 27th, 2010The May 2010 poll was a two-parter, and there are a lot of comments in there.
We asked: How often do you masturbate?
Not quite 200 replies this time, but a respectable number. You can see the results of part one of the poll here: http://www.fatalemedia.com/polls/past_polls.html
And the bonus question posed this gem: What is the most public place you’ve masturbated?
Here are the public masturbation comments, a varied lot, and if you forgot to add your two cents, you can still add to the conversation:
http://www.fatalemedia.com/blog/2010/04/30/do-you-go-down-public-masturbation/#comments
This month we’re curious about what role fantasy plays in your life. So we ask:
What role does fantasy play in your life?
Vote now! The poll question is on Fatale’s home page.
And because we like to hear what you think, we’ve added yet another bonus question this time, which appears after you vote on the first question.
Bonus question: What’s the best fantasy you ever had that came true?
Stay tuned. We’ll give you the results in July.
Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex!
Nan and Christi
www.fatalemedia.com
P.S. See all Fatale’s DVDs.
Takin’ it to the streets—sex and the public sphere
Friday, May 14th, 2010The street, the beach, the backseats of cars… On commuter trains, at your desk, in the office elevator… On pool tables, in bars, in public restrooms…
These are just a few public masturbation dens. Yummy!
Here are some of our favorite reader comments so far:
“I like to do it in my car while I am driving. One time I orgasmed as I was transitioning from the 15 freeway to the 805 in very heavy traffic. Now that I am a little older and live in a rural community, I like to take my convertible out for a drive in the summer evenings while naked. Could someone please spank me?”
“Bathroom at boot camp.”
“I did it in the forest while searching for mushrooms in France. I went off the track behind bushes and sat down. I had great orgasm and squirt.”
You can submit your own comment here at the blog.
What about toys? Vibrators? Almost no one has mentioned using toys or vibrators, although a couple comments specifically mention the squeezing together of legs or using a water jet to get off.
Tell us! We want to know. What’s the most public place you’ve masturbated?
We think voyeurism counts too, especially Christi, having lived in New York City for so many years. When does your apartment become a public space? What about a beach house? Same issue?
Till next time, yours in good love and sex,
Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com
P.S. Need some inspiration? Put on Talk to Me Baby: A Lover’s Guide to Dirty Talk and Role Play, and just revel in the sound of Shar Rednour’s voice. Oh, sweet honey.
Favorite Lesbian DVDs
Friday, May 14th, 2010
Did you know there’s a whole page dedicated to lesbian DVDs at Fatale? We wanted to offer some kudos to the “Best Lesbian DVDs,” so designated by LesbianLife.About.com.
Check out these “Favorite Lesbian Porn DVDs” page here: http://www.fatalemedia.com/videos/favorite_lesbian_porn_dvds.html
But just so you know, the top-selling lesbian DVD at Fatale for 2010 is Emilie Jouvet’s lesbian porn DVD One Night Stand.
Slutgrrls wrote: “The porn for you if you like your lesbians real, your fucking diverse, your pussies wet and your tranny boys hung.”
Check out One Night Stand.
Invitation to Like Fatale Media on Facebook
Thursday, May 13th, 2010
This is a special invitation, because we know we have lots of people who like us in real life, and we want to continue our effort to crank up the number of people who like us on Facebook.
Want to like us? Click on our Facebook link: http://companies.to/fatalemedia/
Here’s a huge thank-you for liking Fatale!
How Often and Where in Public?
Thursday, May 13th, 2010This month’s official poll question is a two-parter.
Part 1: How often do you masturbate?
Bonus question: What is the most public place you’ve masturbated?
Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page.
And we’ll give you the results in a couple weeks.
Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex!
Nan and Christi
www.fatalemedia.com
P.S. See all Fatale’s DVDs.
P.P.S. Join us! Like Fatale on Facebook!
Masturbation Moment
Saturday, May 1st, 2010Spring has sprung, and it seems that the sweetness in the air is translating to a renewed sexual desire to experiment, to play, to surrender to the senses.
May used to be devoted to masturbation, but we haven’t seen a whole lot going on nationally this year. Still, we were curious to see a question put out there on another Web site about the “most public places” you’ve masturbated. So that’s the basis for our main poll question this month: How often do you masturbate?
(You can vote on Fatale’s home page.)
After you vote, you get a bonus question: What is the most public place you’ve ever masturbated? Tell us! You can be as anonymous as you want to. Simply put only your first name or a pseudonym in the “Name” section of the Comments when they come up. Your e-mail and Web address (if you have one) will not be published.
Don’t be shy! Vote now.
We’ll see you in a couple weeks. For now, we’re headed off for a sexy weekend away to celebrate Nan’s birthday. Whether or not you’re in the mood for a weekend away, we hope you have some sexy fun alone or with your partner(s)!
Yours in good love and sex,
Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com
P.S. One of our favorite masturbation solo acts in a lesbian video is in The Crash Pad Series Volume 3. Dylan, having watched from inside a curtained closet the steamy sex scene between two lovers, throws herself on the bed after they leave. It is still, in our opinion, the best scene in the movie.
Top 5 Bestsellers for Spring 2010
Saturday, May 1st, 2010Here are the top 5 bestselling DVDs from Fatale for the first four months of 2010 – get ’em while they’re hot!
– “Many straight guys love anal penetration because it allows them to relax and receive passive pleasure.” – Playboy.
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– “It’s rare that an ‘educational’ movie is able to straddle the line between information and hot sex, but BOB 2 does it.” – Sexilicious.com
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– “The porn for you if you like your lesbians real, your fucking diverse, your pussies wet and your tranny boys hung.” – Slutgrrls
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4. Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels
– “Dyke drama at its finest, Hard Love is the story of two former girlfriends who can’t resist a last roll in the hay….The plot’s climax between the exes—[Jackie] Strano and newcomer C.C. Bell—is genuine, explosive, and one of the best lesbian sex scenes ever made.” – Tristan Taormino, Village Voice
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5. Coming Home
– “The first of this series of vignettes features a big, curvy butch-femme couple: the deliciously hot women we never get to see in mainstream porn…” – LesbianLife.About.com, “Best Lesbian Porn”
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Good-bye Don’t Ask Don’t Tell
Friday, May 28th, 2010The first step in repealing the 1993 Clinton presidency compromise on gays in the military, “Don’t Ask Don’t Tell,” is at last on its way out.
Yesterday the U.S. House of Representatives voted 234 to 194 to allow the repeal of the law, which bans out gays and lesbians in the military.
Officially: House Vote 317 – Allows Repeal of Ban on Gays in Military (New York Times article today).
It was a sad day when the “Don’t Ask Don’t Tell” compromise was forced in to law. But since then, Americans’ perceptions of gays and lesbians seem to have changed for the better. We’re not the same pariahs we were then.
To that we salute the House members who voted to repeal this act.
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