Archive for 2009

That Door to Your Temple

Friday, August 14th, 2009

Karen Williams
“Kick open that door to your temple and let people in!”

So says Karen Williams, and watching once again her 2008 live show from the Knitting Factory in Hollywood is a good wakeup call.

We say yes! It’s time. Forget that moan-and-groan, I-don’t-wanna-have-sex attitude. Sex is good, and good for you. Sex is fun. Sex is real.

So quit whimpering and get inspired. Dress up. Get loose. Strap on. Try something you’ve never tried before.

And if you need some true inspiration, watch a sexy DVD. You won’t regret it.

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com

Sex Tips: Where’s My Pole???

Friday, August 14th, 2009

by Shar Rednour
I remember Fanny Fatale doing “Stripping for Your Lover” classes back before every reality star on Earth was installing a pole in her living room. I was at my son’s preschool the other day and all the straight moms were discussing which pole-dancing class to take! They were actually embarrassed that the new mom on the block (me) overheard them. Hilarious.

Dancing to entice your prey is so sexy. My favorite part of One Night Stand is the beginning when they are dancing at the club and end up in a hot bathroom make-out. I love it.

In Hard Love we have a femme Renee stripping for a butch and–I think the first ever butch (Devon) to strip on screen. You can easily watch her moves for tips on how to do this at home. She is not perfect–I actually taught her in the moment on set. And that is a good learning tool.

The pros make it look easy, then you try it and fall down getting off your panties!

Tip 1: Don’t wear panties. Joking. Lie down on your back and stretch your legs above your head to take off your panties. Butches or masculine folks: have your babe or boi pull down your briefs for you to find a big surprise waiting!Finger Sucking JPG_opt

I find the anticipation of sex one of the best ways to get yourself eaten alive.

Tip 2: When doing a striptease, judge your audience. Is your lover (or lovers) going to be able to sit there and wait until the show is over with? Try tying her up to a kitchen chair (with no arms) with your bathrobe sash if think she is going to scoop you up and carrying you off to bed before the show is over with. Did you see how Renee and Devon ravaged each other after the heat factor went up from the stripping?

glove fisting JPG_optI KNOW WHAT YOU ARE SAYING–what’s so bad about being dragged off to bed before the tease is done? Or better yet thrown right down and fucked silly right there on the floor? Well, it is better. If you make them wait, and squirm, and salivate, and make their fists open and close, fingers and cocks rising waiting. Trust me. It’s better.

Tip 3: For those wearing combat boots or any boots: Untie or loosen your laces before you get started. Our PA loved loosening Johnny Fremont’s (Devon’s) laces. I had to slap her to get her out of the shot.

Tip 4: Front-closure bras. That does help.

Tip 5: Zippers not buttons. Whether it’s a long zipper down your back that you need help with or a dykedick hiding under Levi’s fly.

Note: intermediates and pros can handle some buttons of course. Just practice. When there’s no time, grab the clothes with zippers. And if they stick–be prepared to lose the dress forever because you’ll want to just rip it off!

Bonus Tip: You don’t need a pole to strip for your lover.

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hard_love_dvdShar Rednour is the femme diva who runs S.I.R. Video with her partner, Jackie Strano. She is also the director of Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels, Sugar High Glitter City and many other sexy DVDs.

Reminder: Sizzling Sale is On!

Friday, August 14th, 2009

As a token of our appreciation, we’re offering a Sizzling Summer Savings of 10% – 20% off when you order during August. The discounts automatically show up in your shopping cart when you drop items in. One DVD is 10% off, two DVDs gets you 15% off and three or more is 20% off plus free shipping.

See all Fatale’s DVDs.

What’s Porn to You?

Thursday, August 13th, 2009

Don’t forget to vote in the current poll.

For August we ask: How important is porn in your life?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page.

And we’ll give you the results next month.

Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex,

Nan and Christi
www.fatalemedia.com

Sizzling Summer Savings

Friday, July 31st, 2009

Sizzling Summer SavingsAs a token of our appreciation, we’re offering a Sizzling Summer Savings of 10% – 20% off when you order during August. The discounts automatically show up in your shopping cart when you drop items in. One DVD is 10% off, two DVDs gets you 15% off and three or more is 20% off plus free shipping.

Maybe you’re ready to head for the mountains or the beach or the lake. Like a lot of our friends, we’re not taking a block of vacation time off this summer, but we are planning to take off a couple weekends and just go chill in a hotel with a pool. We also have a couple invitations from friends to stay with them.

One thing we always take with us on vacations is a few dyke DVDs. Yes, we’ve seen them all, but when we treat ourselves to a vacation, we want to have some sexy fun! Sexy DVDs make nice house gifts for our hosts and hostesses too.

bend_over_boyfriend2_88wFor straight friends and family, you can’t go wrong with Bend Over Boyfriend. If your friends already have BOB, try Bend Over Boyfriend 2.

Buy both Bend Over Boyfriend DVDs and you can really save, more than 20%.

 

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Coming Home DVD

 For lesbian flicks, check out this page of recommended Favorite Lesbian DVDs.

At the top of the list is Carolyn Caizzi’s Coming Home. Worth a look if you haven’t seen it!

 

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Remember, for the month of August, Sizzling Summer Savings gets you 10% – 20% off. The shipping rates are low, low, low too. We didn’t raise them after Gay Pride. So enjoy our way of saying, “Thank you!”

You can see all Fatale’s DVDs here.

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com

P.S. You can pay securely at Fatale by credit card or PayPal. And remember, you save 10% – 20% for the month of August! See all Fatale’s DVDs.

Top 5 Bestsellers for July

Friday, July 31st, 2009

Every now and then we like to let you know what’s hot, what’s hopping, what’s selling like hotcakes. So here goes, Faale bestsellers for the month of July, 2009.

Bend Over Boyfriend

 

1. Bend Over Boyfriend Gift Set – a good special offer, and with the Sizzling Summer Savings, you’ll save even more!

 

 

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one_night_stand

 

2. One Night Stand – Winner! 2009 Sexiest Dyke Movie

 

 

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The Crash Pad Series Volume 4 Rope Burn

 

3. The Crash Pad Series Volume 4 – Rope Burn – Ooh, talk about sizzling!

 

 

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Female Ejaculation for Couples

 

4. Female Ejaculation for Couples – a great guide for couples who want to learn how to female ejaculate

 

 

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hard_love_dvd

 

5. Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels – the masterpiece from Shar Rednour and Jackie Strano of S.I.R. Video

 

 

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Ask Fanny: Very Multiorgasmic

Thursday, July 30th, 2009

Deborah Sundahl - Female Ejaculation ExpertG-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot. You may send your questions to askfanny at fatalemedia.com; please put FE Q&A in the subject line.

Dear Fanny,
I am one of those women who have been traumatized by the fact that I ejaculate when I climax. I am very multiorgasmic (as long as the man can hold out, I can continue climaxing) and by the time a lovemaking session ends, the whole bed is soaked!

At first I thought it might have been incontinence, yet the sensation was different than that of urination, and the liquid was totally clear and practically – if not completely – odorless.

As time went on, the experience became uncontrollable, more intense and much messier. I have gone to several doctors and once they get over their dismay, they tell me there is nothing to do about it and to just enjoy it.

Problem is, I am presently single, and I don’t know how or when to approach the subject with a man. I am embarrassed to be too candid up front, yet I would be even more mortified if they were turned off by sharing the experience or, worst yet, if they actually thought the liquid was as a result of incontinence.

Do you have any suggestions on how to approach the subject? I would love to once again be intimate with a man, but I let my fear of rejection hold me back. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

Cee
Los Angeles, CA

Dear Cee,
Since you obviously have female ejaculation and multiple orgasms working in your sex life, it seems odd that you are not that free when it comes to telling your potential partners about your wonderful ability to be so orgasmic and free-flowing!

When you find a partner you want to have sex with, it is always a good idea to tell him upfront that you ejaculate. The best way to open up the topic with partners is to ask them if they have heard of female ejaculation. If they have not, then you need to tell them that is what you do and then see their reaction. If it is anything less than curious and somewhat enthusiastic, don’t go out with them again.

My guess is that you have had partners in the past who do not appreciate or express themselves sexually in the sophisticated and open way that you do. And that in fact they have put you down for it. I believe this is the problem, not what to say to a potential sex partner.

A woman just came to my workshop who learned to ejaculate for the first time. She went back to her new partner, who didn’t know about female ejaculation, and she did not ejaculate. This is not surprising to me.

Do not be afraid or ashamed of your wonderful way you express yourself sexually. If your partner cannot meet you with this, find another. Do not waste your precious sexual life force on someone who will denigrate it by withdrawing, ignoring or withholding interest and sexual partnership.

Good luck!

Deborah

Female Ejaculation for Couples

 

Want to find out more about female ejaculation? Check out Deborah Sundahl’s popular sex-education DVD Female Ejaculation for Couples.

Shaven * Is Porn Important?

Thursday, July 30th, 2009

In the last poll, we asked: Do you prefer shaven or unshaven?

Pussy is one thing…but everything else? Check out the “shaving results” here:
http://www.fatalemedia.com/polls/past_polls.html

This month we ask: How important is porn in your life?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page.

And we’ll give you the results in September.

Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex,

Nan and Christi
www.fatalemedia.com

Strawberries

Wednesday, July 15th, 2009

We got a call from our old friend Norm not long ago. He spent about a year taking porn movies—including Fatale’s—to film students for screenings. Film students at Columbia University, the New School and New York University all saw Fatale’s DVDs. Ostensibly, Norm’s research was to benefit sex therapists, and it may still.

But Norm’s “findings” were what fascinated us:

hungry hearts hot tub sceneHungry Hearts was voted “Greatest turn-on,” and “More erotic than any other film.”

Why? Because the film students loved the strawberry scene in the hot tub. They loved the strawberry and they loved the blindfold. They also liked that the brunette is unshaven.

Strawberries are in season now. Blindfolds and romance are always in season. If you want more inspiration, check out Hungry Hearts.

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi

nan@fatalemedia.com

christi@fatalemedia.com

“The U-Haul” by Shar Rednour

Wednesday, July 15th, 2009

U-HaulThis weekend I lost two babysitters because they were moving; three other friends at a Bar-B-Q are prepping to move as well as three other friends who blew off the party to pack up the truck. The 20-something babysitters are moving back in with their folks because the economy is ruining their summer of love.

A couple of my other friends, though, are doing THE MOVE-IN. The big one, with lovers. Cue: the U-haul joke.

Frankly, I’m a Libra—we aren’t the Cancer nesters, but dang it we love love and it’s so-o-o-o-o romantic for us to move in with a lover. I of course never want to unpack. The whole thing scares me and discombobulates me. I frantically open the Champagne that’s meant for celebration later and walk around in circles staring at boxes and getting more and more confused until I end up in a full nervous breakdown, at which point said lover realizes it’s her job to make passionate love to me to make me forget my worries.

(The problem is inevitably that I have more stuff than I have containing objects like dressers. I guess I need to grow up and pay for dressers instead of just finding them on Big Trash day. I digress. That’s either a Planet Green column or an HGTV piece, depending on which way you go.)

People get really intense when moving. Either you are not sentimental and you can throw random items like your shampoo, dildo and incense all into the same box without a thought. Or you are the opposite and every item that you pick up requires a judgment on your entire life: Is this Mustang Ranch coffee cup the first cup that her lips touched in my house? If you sell it in the garage sale does it mean she is nothing to you?

hard_love_dvdAnyhoo—in Hard Love we focus on the breakup and the Ex-Sex with good references to couch-carrying on moving day.

You would be surprised how many dykes told me that they too had had a huge Ex fight regarding the couch or other moving day extremes. Do we all owe Ex sex to anyone who carried found furniture home for us? And is it okay for the Ex to court and even fuck on that shared couch? Where is the line between slime-bag dog and utilitarian dyke?

Well, everyone does not break up after the move-in. An oldie but goodie, Suburban Dykes shows us how the serious moved-in lovers keep it hot and real.

sharon mitchell in suburban dykesWhen the doorbell rings and our loving couple opens the door to Sharon Mitchell with her bag of goodies (Nina Hartley and Pepper had ordered her as an escort to spice up their life) I cum right there without even waiting. I have the vibrator set and ready.

Listen, if butch Sharon showed up at my door I would stay married forever to my woman who ordered her up. And that’s that. The hot sex, real chemistry and gorgeous pussy shots in Surburban Dykes makes this a flick that will always stand the test of time. Just like a good move-in!

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S.I.R. Video producer and director Shar Rednour is best known for directing Bend Over Boyfriend, Bend Over Boyfriend 2 , Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels, Sugar High Glitter City and Talk to Me Baby.