G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot.
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Dear Fanny,
You mentioned the “Crystal Wand” in your book. I’m looking to purchase one, but I’m having a hard time finding any advice on how to use it. Can you tell me the proper technique?
Thanks,
Bryan in Michigan
PS: Thanks to your book, I’ve helped my last 2 girlfriends ejaculate!!!
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Dear Bryan,
Well, congratulations on helping women to ejaculate!
Because the Crystal Wand is lucite, please make sure it is always moist. It dries out quickly and when it’s dry, it hurts.
The best description of how to use the magic wand is in my video Tantric Journey. You can see quite clearly how Corrynna uses it to ejaculate.
But in general, use one curled end to slip behind the “tail” of the G-spot -the “back end” of the female prostate organ. Use the tip to push (prod and poke) toward the vaginal roof where the tail ends. Explore the “crevice” where tail ends and vaginal roof begins. The tip works nicely to find that one spot that is still sensitive in most women who are just learning to awaken their G-spots. Since it is a hard tool, don’t poke too hard.
If she doesn’t feel anything, she is numb there and needs to reawaken her sensations, which takes lots of time–sometimes years.
You use the 2-3 inches or so from the tip, to gently pull forward on the tail of the G-spot.
As with all toys and bodies, everyone is different. Not all women will feel the same. Different women have different desires and what they like done. And as with all techniques, best to get the general idea and then let the moment lead you.
Hope this helps!
Fanny
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Send your questions to askfanny@fatalemedia.com.
Be sure to check out Deborah’s new DVD, Female Ejaculation: The Workshop