G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot.
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Dear Fanny,
What color is female ejaculate?
Curious
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Dear Curious,
Female ejaculate is clear and odorless to all but the most discerning noses. To those intimately familiar with their female ejaculate, it can have a very fresh and uplifting fragrance, perhaps best described as an “essence.”
It appears that some women try too hard to ejaculate, and that could be the cause of occasional discoloration in their ejaculate, a cloudiness or pale hue. There is no need to worry when this occurs, just quit trying too hard!
Also, the temperature and amount of ejaculate changes with the menstrual cycle. During the time from ovulation to menstruation, female ejaculation is “hotter” and “saltier” if you taste it. Plus there tends to be more of it. It is during this time when traces of urine may show up. This only happens to some women, not all.
After menstruation and before ovulation, female ejaculate is “cooler,” clearer, and there is less of it.
Happy gushing!
Fanny
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Send your questions to askfanny@fatalemedia.com.
Scissoring
Monday, October 1st, 2007We’ve been in the business of lesbian sex movies for a long time, over 20 years, but this was a new one on us: scissoring. Supposedly a sex act where two lesbians interlink their legs to form two sets of “scissors” and rub their girl parts together, not only the term but the act itself is one we’ve never seen or done!
What gives? Is this some new position lesbians have suddenly “discovered”? Is it a term made up by some guys who haven’t really witnessed lesbian sex in the flesh or movies?
An article, “It’s Lesbian Sex 101 with Professor Tam,” first clued us in to this odd expression. And no, scissoring is not the same as tribadism, which is our experience is usually done face to face.
The idea of using a double-headed dildo in this scissors position crossed our minds, but women’s insides aren’t shaped like shotgun apartments. That’s why most double-headed dildos are shaped like the letter U.
Besides, what fun is sex if you can’t kiss each other, play with each other’s nipples and watch her face as she comes?
What do you think? You can comment here.
Yours in good love and sex,
Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com
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